Is it normal that i suddenly stopped loving my boyfriend after 2 years?

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So...we've been together for 2 years and it has been a relationship with up and downs. Recently, he broke up with me, but we got back together in just a few days. Now everything is good between us,but for me something changed since then. I just don't seem to love him as much as I used to and I don't know why. I think I want to end this relationship, but I don't know if it's a good idea because I feel like I'm addicted to him or something. What do you guys think? I really thought this love would last a lifetime, but now I think I don't have feelings for him anymore.

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago

    listen to your heart and move on. Your feeling of being addicted is probably just coming from the bond you've created over 2 years and stepping into the unknown, the independent life, might be hard to fathom right now. But it is not fair to him to go on if your heart is not in it.

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      "Listen to your heart".

      Yeesh. Minus a zillion respect points, buddy.

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      • Holzman_67
        9 years ago

        haha yeah thanks roxette

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  • Hajer92
    9 years ago

    it happened to me too

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you should definitely move on, especially if you "feel like I'm addicted to him". There is nothing healthy about that statement.
    To be fair to him, you should inform him that it's over and let him know that you would rather make it a clean break, not drag the whole thing on and on for several months. Good luck and I hope it goes easily.

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  • ymmii
    9 years ago

    I've been in the exact same situation TWICE. Leave as soon as you can. It's only gonna drag you down if you stay.

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  • Todays_food_is_tacos
    9 years ago

    wow. that sucks. I think you'd find that you lost a soulmate but you've probably lost him already if that's how you feel inside.

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    • EccentricWeird
      9 years ago

      As opposed to feeling outside? Where else does one feel? You cliché potato.

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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    If youre feeling that way then end it.

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