Is it normal that i still want my ex back?

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Is it normal that I still think about my ex every day? We dated for 7 years until she broke up with me 3 months ago. She sort of left me for another guy, but I still want to be with her (not right now, but after we have had time to heal and fix our relationship). I talk to her regularly and want her back, even though I have not forgiven her yet. I feel like I should move on, but I also know I am totally capable of forgiving her. She has just kind of lost her way a bit this last year. Up until then, our relationship was going like gangbusters.

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    3 months isn't long enough to get over someonw you were with for 7 years. It could be years before you're completely over it.

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  • (s)aint
    9 years ago

    Don't linger in the past, you can't ever get that back with her. She has moved on and you should too.
    An ex is an ex for a reason. Whenever friends have gotten back with their exes I have just WAITED for it to backfire ...

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    You are living in LaLa land. She's gone, never more to return. Even if you got back together, you would never trust her again really, so the relationship would die a second ugly death. Can you handle that?
    Just go find someone else. I know its hard, but dude, it is the only smart thing to do.
    You will find somebody better, I assure you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Forgiveness doesn't have to mean reconciliation.

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