Is it normal that i sometimes question my motives when i tell my gf that i love her?

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Don't get me wrong; I really love my girlfriend, I wish to grow old with her and make her happy. Also, she is the first girl I decided to go all-in for. Sometimes when we hang out, I do feel like I'm not enough for her, but that's something I've come to terms with: I leave that up to her.
However, if I'm feeling "in the mood" or tell her that I love her, sometimes a thought passes through my mind, making me wonder: am I only in it for the sex/her appearance? I definitely think I'm not, but the fact I sometimes wonder about that worries me. What if I'm just tricking myself, you know?. Just wondering if it's normal to have those thoughts.

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  • [Old Memory]
    2 years ago

    You seem like an overthinker. If you love her then you love her, why think about it so much.

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      2 years ago

      Heh, I do hear that a lot actually, that I seem the type.
      Maybe you're right :)

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  • Grunewald
    2 years ago

    Imposter syndrome?

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Almost sounds like a symptom of low testosterone or something. Those are women's thoughts.

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    • Tommythecaty
      2 years ago

      🤣

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