Is it normal that..i slyly tipped the hottest bartender more than the others

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Went to my usual sports bar tonight, and had four bartenders on. Two were hot, one fairly new (so don't know her yet), and the other, a cranky girl that nobody likes. Newer girl on most of the night, two hotter ones, too, and, luckily, cranky girl left early.

I'm a regular there, and try to not play favorites, but, tonight.. After paying my bill on my card, waited a few minutes, and slipped the hottest, most beautiful, and, friendly to me both in and out of work, bartender an extra $15. The other girls didn't see or know. Was I showing favoritism? Probably.."Marissa" really is better at her job then they are, and, is unbelievably beautiful..Smile, skin tone, body, face..Just amazing.

Driving home, I had some thoughts on this.. Is it wrong to tip your favorite more, even if they share tips on regular bills and the extra tip is hidden from the others?

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  • Jayemen
    7 years ago

    I posted a comment to the first moron, but guess it didn't post; Anyway, to you both: I was asking a simple question. Pardon me if I'm the type of guy who actually tips and treats people well; Clearly, neither of you have the cash or common sense to do so. I'd suggest getting a job and taking your hand out of your crotch. Give your teenie weenie a break.

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  • Ban_all_sex-obsessed_retards
    7 years ago

    No one cares, you bland fucking neckbeard.

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    How fascinating your life is.

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  • Justmehere
    7 years ago

    Have to admit, I've done this a few times. Matter of personal choice and who gives the better or best service. Going overboard for someone who's average or not very good only makes the customer think twice next time. Rewarding a job well done is appreciated.

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  • Rihyae
    7 years ago

    It's normal. Making sure you look nice and treating people right pays off.

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  • OhIsee
    7 years ago

    Whatevs

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  • wigz
    7 years ago

    Very cringeworthy and pretty stupid. I worked in bars for years and customers that give tips like this are not thought very highly of. Yeah sure, I'll take your money and be nice but it comes off real pathetic, creepy and desperate. And don't be too sure that the other girls won't know just because they didn't see. We talk. We're often pretty friendly with each other and we usually watch out for one another whether we're friends or not. We discuss most of the regular customers. If a customer tips unfairly like this, some girls will share it with the others anyway.

    Tip normal based on who serves you and how well. It would be best to use cash and just tip $2.00 or so each time you get a drink. Tipping each time makes it easy to get the money directly to the one working for you and it sorta makes you a higher priority customer. Plus some businesses take a % of credit card tips, and tips paid this way are put through payroll so it gets taxed. It sucks.

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    • Jayemen
      7 years ago

      I know they sometimes share tips, especially on weekends. I just see no problem with rewarding those who do give good service, and, not to be mean here, but...Going minimum or low on those who don't. Sorry, you need to do your job and earn it. And the place I go to, let's just say, all the girls aren't all chummy with each other. Most, yes, but they also know who brings them down and who people, male and female, will go in for and who they won't.

      That's really what this is all about to me..Why should I have to tip someone who's crabby, unattentive (as in..empty glass sits there as she walks by, or I have the menu on the edge of the bar, signaling I'm ready to order food), and just lousy at her job. And maybe I slipped the other one money because she works another job and supports herself on next to squat every month..

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    Get out of your head, old man. What you're really worried about is what she thinks of you and it's crippling your personality and confidence. This advice is twice as important if this comment upsets you.

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    • Jayemen
      7 years ago

      No, dude..I was simply asking if favoring one as opposed to the other, tip-wise, as a regular customer, is frowned upon if noticed..Maybe I was in a good mood that night? Maybe I, unlike yourself, can afford to throw around some cash just because, and not worry over every penny as you likely do.

      And, um..My personality and confidence are pretty well intact. If anything, my expectations and standards are too high. Last woman I dated, at the end, told me nothing she ever did seemed good enough for me. Know what? She was correct. It wasn't.

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      • bubsy
        7 years ago

        I'm not sure why you feel the need to defend your wealth. I was referring to the fact that you cared enough to ask IIN whether or not you offended a bartender over some special treatment.

        That you worried over something so trivial, out of fear you acted impolitely, means you've got an ego you need to cut down. And when I mean ego, I mean your sense of self and the hyper-sensitivity that brings up questions like these.

        There is also no correlation between 'having high standards' and being confident. If you want proof of that, consider every woman that's ever lived.

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