Is it normal that..i seem to only want crazy women?

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I can't seem to avoid crazy women, either meeting them or letting them hang on or pursuing them. Right now, I have two in particular. One is in her 30s, 3 kids who live with the father, who she cleans for out of guilt, she's on many psych meds and is known, at the sports bar we both go to, as bit of a nutcase. YET..I find her attractive, she's pretty, great smile and blonde hair, and we flirt back and forth as the drinks flow. We've kissed a few times, and damn..She does have soft, alluring lips.

Thing is, based on prior experience, as I've met her before, I know she's a mental tire fire, and that's putting it nicely. Sexually attracted to her, bus she's wacky.

The other one was from earlier this year, very beautiful, the polished nails have to match her outfit all the time, we've been out a bunch of times and do well, and look good, together. I had thoughts of there being an "us" at some point, I liked her that much. But, like the first one..I knew she was crazy. Others told me of her being found slumped over her steering wheel, strung out on drugs, begging people for money. and tons of other stuff. One bartender friend of mine who didn't like her and said she was using me, called her "high forehead girl", since her hair was up a lot.

I haven't spoken with or texted her since earlier this year, when we had a blowup argument and I told her these things, knowing about the drug use, how her living situation was her choice, and how her kids were messed up because of her, but, being honest..I've been thinking about her a lot lately. So much that, the other night, I had my phone in hand and was going to text her. Then thought better.

is it normal that I seem to be attracted to or want to keep/pursue crazy women? There have been others, but these two are recent. Why can't I seem to shake this, or, them? Is it purely sexual, or do I need to have that craziness in my life?

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    Went to my usual place for pizza last night, and noticed another woman I knew, Anna, who's attractive, knows how to show off her body without being slutty, and..Always in some sort of life trouble. Last time I talked to her, she was being evicted, lost her job, kids problems, etc. She's hot but also wacky.

    To my credit, even though we traded a few glances, I didn't go see her, hoped she wouldn't stop to see me, and successfully avoided her. On purpose.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    This may not be relevant to your situation, but when I was a lot younger I always seemed to attract friends who were crazy and very needy. It took me a while to work out that I was a bit crazy myself and spending time with people much crazier and needier than I was helped me fool myself I was 100% sane.

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    • Mehereok1
      5 years ago

      I've looked at myself at times and thought similar..Am I a bit off, too, for associating with these people? I take responsibility for it, but don't see myself as crazy as they are. And find it funny when I do cut someone off, as I did a few months ago with another, constantly in some sort of life trouble, woman, how I don't hear from them after that point.

      Another friend of mine, very beautiful, curly hair and looks women kill for, is personally crazy but never anything with me. I've helped by talking to her, never anything financial, but otherwise..She keeps changing jobs, it's usually their fault, she picks guys who mistreat her, and has messaged or texted me at all hours to talk. And I do. Only difference between she and the others is that I've never helped her out financially, or had anything physical with. But she's still wacky.

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  • mattypattpatt
    5 years ago

    Dude me too. Every gf I've ever had, was always batshit insane. I just always kinda liked wild women. Def normal imo.

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    • Mehereok1
      5 years ago

      I don't know if it's normal or not, but, will say..This happens a lot, and, with the two I mentioned anyway, the sexual charge was/is definitely there. And I know both see psychiatrists and are nine pounds of nutty in a two pound, crazy bag.

      The little blonde is very flirty and sexy, and the other one is flirty, sexy, and experienced enough to know how to get what she wants. First night we were out for dinner at an average, ok, nothing special place, she fed me, and when we left, planted a huge kiss on me, saying thank you, now where are we going?

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    It's not about "making me feel important" at all..I just like helping people, and, the crazy women seem to be drawn to me. I've gotten away from a few, and doing my best to stay away from the two I mentioned.

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  • Mehereok1
    5 years ago

    I know part of it is the taking care of thing. Not low self-esteem (if anything, I've been told the exact opposite at times). I am a nice guy who treats them well, and hear that often. The second one I mentioned, the polished nails match the outfit woman, would say that a lot..That I treated her better than her ex-husband ever did.

    As for ending up dead from a psycho, I'd put that on the first one. She's petite and cute, but notably unstable, both herself and situations she puts herself in (first time I met her, she needed a ride home, due to being in a foot cast, so I did..Only to then hear her say that her bf was coming home and he's "very possessive"..I got out of there fast). Trying my best to avoid both of these women, and future crazies.

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