Is it normal that i saw this skinny guy with this fat nasty obese woman?

67% Normal
25 Comments

Ok, so I'm walking into the walmart grocery store, and I walk by this couple. It was an average built man, and this big nasty obese woman. I don't mean pleasantly plump or curvy, or just thick, or anything like that, I mean nasty. Fat hanging off every part of her even her legs, and to make things worse she was wearing short shorts.

So this got me thinking, this guy has got to be average, I'd say a 5 or 6 (I'm not gay or nothing but social standards say he's average) Anyway, this woman is a 1, on a good day.

So this has me worried, I consider myself maybe a 6 or 7 on a good day. Is this what I have to look forward to? Do average guys now settle for WAY below average girls? If so why is this so? I don't want to end up like him. It got me worried.

So I imagine it is possible he just has a fat fetish, OR she plumped up after they got married. I can't think of any other explanation.

SO... is this normal? Has anyone else seen this?

Voting Results
67% Normal
Based on 43 votes (29 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 25 )
  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    Fat chicks need love too bitch.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    5
    5
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I think fat chicks need to get their "lovin" from equally unattractive partners, if they are so uncaring of their appearance that they refuse to do anything about it.

      I could see if she had a deformity, but it's just flat out laziness.

      By the way, I neglected to mention they had a little boy with them (presumably their son) I'd guess about 8 years old, he looked to be over 100 lbs easily. Definitely a little fat boy. I felt bad for the kid. Fat momma teaching her son terrible eating habits.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -3
      -3
        -
      • somanydumbpeople
        11 years ago

        Dumb, just dumb. Since the kid was also overweight, it was probably genetic. You should learn to maybe NOT judge people before you even begin to know them(some exceptions, i mean there ARE weirdos that you want to completely steer clear of). lol but yeah, you're dumb.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        1
        1
      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        People can date whoever the fuck they want. Who the fuck are you to say different. Unless they are fucking a minor(Child) leave them alone.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
      • missy18
        11 years ago

        who are you to say you can't love someone because of their weight? it's none of your business and you just sound more vain than them.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          Well for starters I'm a person who exercises. So I actually take care of myself unlike these lard asses around here.

          People can love who they want to love, I just don't understand how you get involved with someone like that.

          And even more than that I don't understand how a person could look at their partner everyday who looks like this and not want to vomit. I would indeed say fetish.

          You can get off your high horse too, don't act like you would date some obese guy if he was nice to you.

          He can be nice to you all he wants and have a great personality but you're gonna doubt your decision when your digging around in his fat crevices to find his penis.

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          -1
          -1
            -
          • RomeoDeMontague
            10 years ago

            Not everyone is a stuck up dickwad like yourself. SO GET OVER IT AND LEAVE PEOPLE ALONE.. You know what I hope she fuckings eats you. You deserve to end up as as someones shit. If you were standing next to me I would break your face. Also for the record Im thin.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
  • ValleyofVung
    11 years ago

    Does personality not count for anything nowadays?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Certainly doesn't count for that much. You still have to fuck her, cuddle her, LOOK at her, all the time, and you have to feed her. That's got to cost a bundle. She waddled like a duck she was so fat.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -3
      -3
  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    It's pretty normal by my standards.
    First off, let's go over reasons which would lead a person to be overweight.

    They were raised by parents who fed them junk food on a regular basis and were not physically active or used junk food as positive reinforcement (like, if you behave I will give you a candy bar and you can watch TV).

    Have a glandular problem.

    Were abused/molested as children and used food as a comfort or as a means to (and this happens) purposefully gain weight so they would be too unattractive for a sexual abuser to take interest in.

    From what I have seen, as in I have seen this before and from my personal experience...

    They are not a couple and this was just your assumption (they were friends, relatives, co-workers, business partners, or any other random relation)

    She gives him some sort of monetary support (rides, money, a place to stay, etc.) She either does not see that she is being used or is fine with it in exchange for the company (low self-esteem due to aforementioned reasons and doesn't believe she is worth anything better).

    Due to aforementioned reasons, she has low self-esteem and he is an abuser, and she allows him to abuse her and he sticks with her because she provides an outlet for his abusive tendencies and she feels that she can't do better ("I'm fat and helpless and a horrible person")

    She did not look as bad before they got together and something happened (maybe a health problem or one of the aforementioned reasons, depression, or another factor which would cause her to use food as a method of comfort) and he is committed enough to the relationship to stay (maybe due to having children or financial obligations, being a traditional dude or maybe he really likes her).

    SHE is an abuser and HE is the one with self-confidence issues due to having a poor upbringing.

    They met online and he "fell in love with her" without full comprehension of her physical image and was easily able to overcome her outward appearance by that virtue.

    Or she has a great personality and he loves that about her enough to overlook the weight problem. Maybe it is something that she has been fighting and he is her "battle buddy".

    Either way, this isn't totally uncommon.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Almost positive they were a couple, so that theory is out. I heard him call her "honey" had his arm around her, and as I mentioned above they had a young plump boy with them, whom I believed to be their son.

      I understand the reasons one could be obese (besides just being lazy) What I don't really understand how a couple like that forms, that was my original question.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      -2
      -2
        -
      • NeuroNeptunian
        11 years ago

        OK, I'll copy paste here.

        She gives him some sort of monetary support (rides, money, a place to stay, etc.) She either does not see that she is being used or is fine with it in exchange for the company (low self-esteem due to aforementioned reasons and doesn't believe she is worth anything better).

        Due to aforementioned reasons, she has low self-esteem and he is an abuser, and she allows him to abuse her and he sticks with her because she provides an outlet for his abusive tendencies and she feels that she can't do better ("I'm fat and helpless and a horrible person")

        She did not look as bad before they got together and something happened (maybe a health problem or one of the aforementioned reasons, depression, or another factor which would cause her to use food as a method of comfort) and he is committed enough to the relationship to stay (maybe due to having children or financial obligations, being a traditional dude or maybe he really likes her).

        SHE is an abuser and HE is the one with self-confidence issues due to having a poor upbringing.

        They met online and he "fell in love with her" without full comprehension of her physical image and was easily able to overcome her outward appearance by that virtue.

        Or she has a great personality and he loves that about her enough to overlook the weight problem. Maybe it is something that she has been fighting and he is her "battle buddy".

        Either way, they met, they talked, it happened. Not everyone is as horribly disgusted by those kind of things as you. I see them all of the time. They no longer even phase me.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
  • Voray
    10 years ago

    Just because they're overweight doesn't mean they don't have a good personality. I've seen several thin/"fat" couples.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • SingleLady3333
    11 years ago

    What is your problem? You are being an asshole.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • somanydumbpeople
    11 years ago

    Dude, you're shallow.... and a poor excuse for a human being if you can't look deeper than someone's appearance. I'm sure if you thought about this a liiiiitle longer before you posted such a ridiculous question, you could've discovered your own stupidity and narrow mindedness instead of needing a bunch of people to write paragraphs about it(your stupidity & narrow mindedness). Oh, and to answer your question: Yes, it is COMPLETELY NORMAL. Thank you, have a nice day :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • similove
    11 years ago

    Stop judging ppl get a life

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      That's a stupid philosophy, if no one was ever judged we'd be like the apes picking bugs off each other and flinging poo.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • somanydumbpeople
        11 years ago

        There's no such thing as not judging people 100% but you also don't need to judge people so extremely. It's called empathy and is supposed to be developed as a child. Some people are just beyond help. I don't know why we take the time to try to explain to people how shallow, inconsiderate, or obviously downright stupid what they are saying is, when if they can't see something so simple, they probably aren't going to be able to understand why we say what we're saying.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    You know what, there are more factors to a relationship than it seems your tiny mind can understand. For example, love? And personality does play a HUGE part. Maybe the guys a totally weenie? Maybe his personality's shit and he's lucky he has her to put up with him. Some people just aren't like you, and they don't give a shit about looks. You're not doomed to have an ugly girlfriend, you're doomed to have relationships that constantly fail because you picked a girl based on her looks. "Why does she always cheat on me??" Cause she's a hot bitch. I'm also going to add this, my sister married a guy who was skinny, and she is significantly over weight, but that guy is THE most annoying guy I have ever met. He's a pot smoker and brags about it openly like it's the coolest thing in the world, he has this high pitched elmer fud laugh, the list goes on. Noone can seem to stand him except her, and honestly, he's cool with that, or he wouldn't have married her.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Boo!
    11 years ago

    Chubby chaser.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Yes, sadly this is what you would have to look forward to. It seems there is a massive over supply of available men today. You should have asked if she had a sister.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      This first part seemed serious, the second part seemed sarcastic. Is it both?

      And no, I'd rather be alone then have a partner that looks like that. That may sound vain, but that's the way it is.

      I don't expect no super model, I'd be happy with an average looking chick.

      Fat, ugly, and disgusting is not for me. I'd rather die alone.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Sadly all parts were serious. Though the last sentence was meant to be funny. Even average looking girls get inundated with average AND below average suitors this day and age, so they can afford to pick and choose. Guys like you and me, we are a dime a dozen.

        As for beautiful girls, rarely do their personalities match up with how their looks do. If it does AND she doesnt ignore you, then what a catch. More and more I dont think women like this exist though, outside of the movies.

        And I completely agree with the fat, ugly, and disgusting opinion. I would take it one step further, that I would rather die alone then have a "pretty" wife BUT one who told what to do, when to do it, how to do it and even what to think. Its seems thats what marriage is supposed to be today.

        No thanks.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    Have you heard that Opposites attract or that beauty is in the eye of the beholder?

    You might not find her pleasing the eye, but she's probably a angel to the guy she's with. Just because a "average man" was with a bodacious woman doesn't mean that that's the only type you could get. There's many different types of women out there and the same goes with men. Don't worry so much.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • the_misty_haze
    11 years ago

    One of my closest friends is a incredibly goodlooking buff as hell marine and his wife is 375 lbs. And she's a total bitch so the maybe she has a wonderful personality idea I originally had towards her is out..I'm SO CONFUSED. lol. I'm guessing fat fetish.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0