Is it normal that i really want to jerk off with my friend?

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My friend and I are both 18 year old guys and have been friends with each other since the 5th grade. Over the past, probably, two years, I have developed an urge to jerk off with him, and now I am unsure what to do.

Firstly, I would like to know if the feelings that I am having are normal. Are my hormones making me act strangely, or am I, in some way, messed up?

To continue the story, I know him pretty well, and have seen, from past experience, that he is really shy about any matters that involve sex. Thus, I don't know how to go about asking him to do it with me. I have read about a few similar situations, and the top suggestion for how to get then to participate is usually porn. I am worried how this might work out, however, because of his shyness--I am not even sure if he has watched porn by himself.

The only other thing that I can think of to do is to just flat out ask him if he'd like to, but I'm not sure how to go about this either.

If anyone has any alternative ways to ask him that I haven't thought of, or simply ways to ease the pain of asking him outright, it would be greatly appreciated. Serious answers only please, I am not trolling.

Also, if anyone has any similar situations that they have been in, the story might be able to help me come up with a resolution for my own.

Thanks in advance.

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  • brookelexx
    6 years ago

    are you possibly questioning yours sexuality? because he’s shy with things regarding sexuality, it could quite possibly ruin your friendship.. if you’re just looking for an experience with another male, you could try grindr or tinder.

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  • sillygirl77
    7 years ago

    It sounds like it could ruin or end the friendship if he doesn't want to do it. You said he was shy/private about sex. I also don't think many male friends would want to jerk off with male friends, so there's probably a good chance he says no. Maybe first you should think about what's most important to you being sure to keep the friendship or trying to ask irregardless to what it does to the friendship. Neither one is right or wrong, but you have to live with the end result. Which end result can you live with?

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    • 1DVSBSTD
      7 years ago

      Those are some good points to think about. Thanks for your help.

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      • sillygirl77
        7 years ago

        You're welcome :)

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