Is it normal that i really want my ex-boyfriend to cheat on his new girl w/ me?

My ex and I were together 3 years and broke up about a year ago. We've been together more than once since we broke up and he was always begging me to get back together with him, but I just wanted him for sex. Recently he got a new girlfriend and I have this urge to get him to cheat on her with me. I know that sounds evil and slutty but it's my fantasy. I don't want to do it so that she finds out, or to try to be a couple again. I would just be satisfied knowing that he cheated and that it was with me. And seeing them in public I could just smile at him and think about what we did while she was gone. Is that so wrong? Aside from the fact cheating is wrong in general, wouldn't it be kind of fun? He did some sketchy things while we were together so I don't think it'd be a huge stretch for him anyways...

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  • Thanks for the comments everyone...DAMN...I really enjoyed them. Secret Identity and Pikaboo88...you understand me. I'm not evil, I just have a sexual fantasy. I've reflected on it, and I've decided...it's normal. What's not normal is the crazy hateful comments I got for this! LOL. This raving whore bitch is gonna fantasize what I want to fantasize about, and if this stupid guy wants to be a part of my fantasy, that's his perogative. All you naysayers are bitter and ugly! PEACE BITCHES! Hide your men! : D

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  • zoffix

    To me, reading this, sounds like you still have feelings for him.

    If it's just a sex fantasy, it's one thing, but seems like you just want to hurt this girl, which makes this a sick and evil fantasy.

    Nothing's fun about potentially messing up someone's relationship on the assumption that he's cheating anyway.

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  • DarQness

    honestly if he was going to cheat on her with you, you two deserve each other and that other woman is better off without him in her life. you are his mistress it sounds like to me. pets often always come crawling back, i say take pleasure in having a pet.

    truth of the matter is, seems to me IIN has a lot of touchy people in it, all this bashing is really unnecessary for just a fantasy. everyone has some kind of dark desire, people be lying if they said they didn't.

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  • Darkoil

    Why don't you go back to your home on whore island

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  • CountessDouche

    Forbidden fruit much? You don't want him, you just think you do because you can't have him...and you enjoy the validation of having him chase after you.

    Just move on; don't fuck up his relationship.

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  • thegypsysailor

    To me you sound like a raving bitch. Of course she'll find out about it, and she'll probably be very hurt. But hell, you won't care because you fulfilled your fucking fantasy.

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  • -Sigh- This is why I can't stand women that only give guys the time of day when they are happy with someone else. Can people like this just fuck off with a slap across the head...With a machete?

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  • Gspyder

    Fantasizing is fine, but if you don't have romantic feelings for him you need to leave the guy alone and let him find someone that does.

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  • poon__jabber

    unhealthy.. u need to cut ties with your ex so you can move on. don't waste time you could find someone that actually makes you happy.

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  • αвαdσηтнєDєѕтяσуєя

    So you assume that aslong as she doesn't find out, its not wrong? You sound like a filthy rotting whore and I hope that his girlfriend somehow finds out about your whore intentions with her boyfriend and gives you a punch in the throat.

    If you're skanky enough to do this, you probably have a collection of STDs and I'm sure if he slept with you, and then slept with his girlfriend she would immediately tell something's up. Skanks like you will cause a person's crotch to catch fire, all the disgusting filth you must have down there.

    I realise I don't know you, but I really hope something bad happens to you. I hope you fall inlove and then your boyfriends psycho bitch ex tries to get her hooks into him like you are trying to do with hers. I hope she succeeds just because you're a no good slut who deserves it.

    I know too many girls like you, and I guess I'm taking out my frustration towards them on you, but that's your fault for asking such a sick question in the first place. Just how old are you anyway? You sound extremely young and even more immature. Why don't you just fuck right off? You're polluting the atmosphere by breathing.

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  • i hope it happens to you , over and over and over again

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  • pikaboo88

    go for it

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  • SecretIdentity

    Haha, YES YES YES! I had/have the same fantasy. I didn't want him back, I didn't want her to find out either. It was purely for the sex under these circumstances. So hot!

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