Is it normal that i prefer simple sex?

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I've been single by choice since last Thanksgiving. My ex, I'd met him frosh-weekend, kept getting kinkier and kinkier. Like, in the beginning he liked oral and kissing--the standard stuff.Then one night after a huge exam we were alone at his dorm & he said to me, "Tonight we're gonna try some different stuff." I was game. But damn! It wasn't just the positions, like 100 of 'em so I could never actually enjoy anything--'cause it would only last a few seconds, it was the toys and the strap ons and the food and the flavored lubes (God, there's no lube more disgusting than "Black Cherry Rocker." Tastes like NyQuil...). In 2 hours of sex I got really bored (all about him--his likes). When he finally got around to entering me he was done in two thrusts. I'm not kidding. Then he withdraws and is all like, "That was awesome!" Yeah, for him.

So is it normal I'd really just prefer some mutual foreplay and long, hot intercourse?

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    Lol your man is doing it ALL WRONG!

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  • Leonard_Hatred
    8 years ago

    I think your ex must have watched way too much shitty porn, which is where he got all of those shitty ideas for all of those shitty positions.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    He just sprung it on you all at once? That's not how you try something new :/

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    What you like is what you like nothing wrong with that.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    Yeah my wife does not like foreplay at all.

    All she wants is dicc....just take her cloths off and start fuccing. Seriously, for one thing she never starts sex, and she is not into kissing or any type of foreplay...none, zero. So if sex is to be had, I must take her cloths off and 'get to it'. It takes about 10 seconds and she's wet, another minute and she's very wet, after that she's soaked, the bed is soaked and I am soaked. After she comes about 10 times she's done, so if I'm not finished she will offer to give me head to finish me off. Although she enjoys to taste of our sex [her juices and my precum] she prefers me to come inside of her and actually gets kinda pissed if I don't.

    So yeah, simple sex is best for some people.

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  • Legion
    8 years ago

    the biggest problem here, was he tried to do a bunch of different things at once. He should have considered maybe running one or two things at most by you and mixing them in with what you normally like to do and actually try to get you off.

    by trying a bunch of things at once, you didn't have time to achieve any possible pleasure from it. also, if try something for a time (longer that what he did each one for!) and don't like it, then go back to the regular thing. the key is to slowly introduce the new thing and work it in there, and see if they like it.

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  • jimdog
    8 years ago

    Definitely inside the uterus, see what you ideally want to do is use the air from the trumpet to pump up the puss so to speak, then when your good and ready squeeze her tight so that the air squeaks out wha la you can now play her little queefs like a musical instrument. Your welcome brother.

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  • Poes
    8 years ago

    I prefer licking, sucking and nibbling on the outer labia and clitoris, the occasional bit of tonging the inner pussy and lifting the legs behind her ears and rimming her bum whilst stimulating the clitoris until my girl has a screaming orgasm, then I say goodnight, turn around and pretend to go to sleep...I then wait for her to fall soundly asleep and peel the blankets off and use here naked body as a visual stimulant to masturbate. when i feel I am about to cum, i move closer to her and shoot my load in her hair and face!

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    • Kittenfever
      8 years ago

      thanks for that

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        Thanks for what, my response to the dude who did not make much sense with his suggestion of blowing into a trumpet? Do you have any suggestions on this matter? I would love to hear from you!

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        • Kittenfever
          8 years ago

          yuck

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          • Poes
            8 years ago

            I concur, its much nicer licking and sucking on the outer labia and clit than blowing some bloody trumpet...if I wanted to blow I would have joined the salvation army...

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    • AB1234
      8 years ago

      Um, OK, Poes.

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        well you must admit that he did sound a bit vague with his suggestion? How should I have responded in your opinion?

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    • jimdog
      8 years ago

      Do you every blow into her muff like its a trumpet?

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      • Poes
        8 years ago

        Well I have to thank you for your suggestion as I have never tried that before...would you suggest blowing on the outer labia, clit or inside the vaginal passage itself?

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