Is it normal that i only want to date psychopaths?

I only want to date guys who are psychopaths and will have no emotional attachment/involvement with me. All of the guys I have previously dated have wanted to talk about feelings and expected me to say things such as “I love you.”

To me this makes them look weak and girly as I am always the cold, emotionally distant one in the relationship so I want a guy who is even more cold than I am.

I’m not bothered about the guy cheating on me as I would just cheat on him back and I actually find the thought of him getting violent with me quite exciting and sexy.

I just want a relationship which provides me with company and sex without any of the emotions and I feel like it would be much better if the guy was a psychopath as I would know he would never have any feelings for me.

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Based on 11 votes (4 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • That's called hybristophilia

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  • ellnell

    You have issues and shouldn't date anyone as you clearly don't want to. It's normal to be uncomfortable talking about emotions, I am and many others are too and prefer to show them instead or just talk about them when necessary.
    You sound kind of like a psychopath yourself.
    You can have sex with a guy without emotional attachment, it's called having a fuck buddy and it's very common in this day and age just go on Tinder for 5 minutes.

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  • Aethylfritha

    You know its not normal.
    Its a great way to end up on the ID channel!
    Get help.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Why not just have fwb relationsips with non-psychopaths?

    You sound pretty confused about having a non-government-sponsored romantic relationship

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  • MrMercury24

    Fuck who hurt you?

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Its basically friends with benefits made to sound bad lol

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  • Mammal-lover

    I wish I could land a guy who wants to talk about there needs and feelings. My ex bitched sometimes that his needs werent being met, he only ever wanted to drink never wanted sex and refused to talk about his needs. Was beyond frustrating

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