Is it normal that i only fall in love at first glance

I don't mean appearance wise! I have this weird thing where I get vibes from people, and it could make or break what I think of you. I saw a girl in the 7th grade and wanted to be her friend, we became friends in gr.9. I got a bad vibe from a guy (first bad vibe, like a literal distaste towards him), a month later during a competition, he pushed a girl, a bystander INTO (not against INTO) a garbage can cause she was in his way. In grade 10, I was in the hallway, and passed a guy, I felt an instant connection despite not knowing him. I had liked him for 3 years even though he moved in the 11th grade. I don't think infatuation lasts that long. Eventually I got over him, and it happened again very recently. 5 months to be exact! I wouldn't call either of these cases love, but a strong dedication to my crush? (I feel guilty if I look at other people when I like someone) I have been friends with some guys for like 7 years, and hang out with guys, but I have never liked a guy from spending time with him. I only like guys when I get a certain 'vibe from them'. I don't tell anyone this fact because they think it is a 'looks' thing and a lot of people think vibes are mumbo jumbo. I don't mean auras like those mediums see, I would more describe it as an intuition, and my intuition tends to be a good judge of character. I don't mean to judge people like this, but I hardly get vibes, and I have only gotten 2 bad ones in my life