Is it normal that i miss my ex when guys upset me?

I've been single for almost a year. I have been in some dates, but they haven't worked out. When dates annoy me, I really miss my ex.mis this normal? By the way, I was the one who ended the relationship with my ex, which is why it makes me think that me missing him isn't normal...

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Based on 10 votes (8 yes)
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  • dom180

    Just because you broke up with him, doesn't mean you can't miss him sometimes. He was special to you (for what I'm guessing was quite a long time), and you can't expect that feeling to disappear. Emotions don't work like that, especially when you're feeling down. So, no - I think it's completely normal.

    Whatever reason you had for breaking up with him is still valid. Missing someone when you're feeling down isn't a very good reason to go back to them.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Yeah, but you're just thinking about the positive parts of the relationship. When I think of my exes, the positive parts do come to mind, but then I think of the stupid shit that made me want to end it in the first place and then they don't seem so special.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Why did you breakup with him? I'm sure you had your reasons, and he's an ex for a reason. We all get lonely, and it's especially when we're lonely that we doubt ourselves and our life decisions. Don't let that loneliness turn into desperation. Hang in there and be true to yourself.

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