Iin: that i miss my best friend so much after a huge fight we got into

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So my ex-best friend and I kind of got into a fight. It all started when my parents got divorced and I had to move. I lived across from my best friend and we hung out all the time. Well, when my parents got a divorce, we had to move to a different house that wasn't far from my old one. But I got mad that we had to move because I wouldn't be able to hang out with my best friend as much as we used to.
So after moving into my new house, our friendship kind of started to drop. We didn't talk as much as we used to, we barely texted, and we stopped hanging out. And it kept getting worse. It went from two laughing best friends to two girls that avoided each other in the hallway. I started hanging out with other people and started making more friends. Same goes with my ex-best friend. I don't really want to share her name on here just in case.
Anyway, I made a new best friend and so did she. So now we're not friends anymore, and we stopped talking.
I blame the moving for breaking our friendship, but I could be wrong somehow. I still miss her everyday and I miss hanging out with her and talking to her. Is it normal that I miss my ex-best friend even after all of this happened?

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  • Mother2All
    9 years ago

    The same thing happened with me an my best friend, she went to live with her mom an before that we spent every weekend together all the time we were conected at the hip! After school we'd talk on te phone till dinner then after dinner we talked till it was time to go to bed.
    But after she moved ib with her mom it all changed we didnt talk she made new friends that lived closer to her an it was all the girls i hate! Well to fibish it all up i started having thoughts of killing myself an she was there to help me back up again.
    It turned out that she missed me just as much as i missed her because her mom said she would cry out for me at night in her sleep, sayi g that i ran away an she couldnt find me

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  • Rebel18
    10 years ago

    Im sorry this happened. Distance tests how strong a relationship is. This is normal. You just miss the days acting like a bunch crazy girls. :)

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    I'd say this is normal, I miss some of my really good friends too. I don't miss them enough to act like I don't remember that they suddenly got stupid and deserve nothing but isolation though. I'm a bit confused also, if we omit this fight you said you two had, it sounds like the only problem is that you moved away and suddenly, you two didn't try very well to keep in contact. Was the distant acts AFTER the fight (which would be normal), and what was the fight even about if that is okay to share?

    I'm mostly curious because my ex best friend moved away but we used Facebook, our phones and Skype video chats to still keep in contact.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Going by what you just said she was never your best friend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I would love to fight some of my ex-friends.

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  • Jonysbachontrak
    10 years ago

    What fight you're talking about I have no idea. But it's normal. I have a lot of friends who I don't necessarily avoid but still feel awkward around despite them being my former close friends.

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