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But can't stop fantasizing about having sex with other men? The urges feel like they're getting stronger. I love my fiancé and I don't want to cheat on him, but what should I do? I can't get these imagines, desires, wants out of my head. Again, I would never cheat on my fiancé!
I think it's normal having fantasies with other people, even when you're married. I mean, you didn't stop being a woman or a man when you marry and humans, some more than others, have a lot of sexual desires.
As long as you fantasy and don't betray your husband it's ok. One thing you could try out is fulfilling your fantasies with your husband, you know try to do different things with him, have sex with him and try new things while having sex. Talk to him about doing these things, he probably has some fantasies of his own and maybe you could also help him accomplish them.
Don't ask about threesomes!! That'd be bad.. 2 man 3somes never work. Test me. Just keep those fantasys in your head if you want to keep you man. I think about banging other dudes all the time!! ..but then I just don't.
Or maybe the urges are from something telling you you aren't ready to get married. Or be monogamous.
I'd try having more frequent adventurous sex with the fiancé
Idk what to tell you other than follow your heart, or your libido wherever it may lead you.
This is totally normal btw.
Have you ever read the old story of the harlot who married the bishop? a leopard cannot change it's stripes. no matter how hard she tries.
Trying asking about a threesome. You have your urges filled without hurting him.
I have this affect on women..
I dont want to tempt you, I'm getting out of here. Its for your own good, DON'T try to stop me!
Oh..?
Alright :)
Stop it. The more you think, the more you're going to consider. Eventually plans to do it secretly will appear. Eventually the drive will surface. And eventually you're going to hurt him, yourself, and your relationship. When you feed it your time and energy, you're letting it consume you. One who cannot control their emotions but let's their emotions control them, is weak.