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Every time I see myself in a mirror or photo it really hits me how fucking ugly I am. Gets me very depressed sometimes as I have no friends or romantic partner, and I'm sure it's at least partially because of this. It may be shallow etc but I sometimes just wish I was good looking. I know my life would be different and less lonely if I was.
I'm certainly not an attractive man. Until I was 12 my parents weren't sure if I'd walk or fly, my ears were so damn big. My nose is long enough for me to lie on my back and sail across a swimming pool. I tend to be a bit heavy and if I'm not careful, I can get fat quickly.
I've had plenty of lovers, 3 wives and I believe most have found me attractive (I honestly do not understand why, but it seems true) and loved me, though perhaps a few were pity fucks.
You must accept yourself as you are, you can't really do much else, can you? Women do not see what you see in the mirror, thankfully.
Give yourself a break and just forget about all the physical shit and concentrate on being an honest and fun guy to be with.
Jesus, 3 wives?!? Why on earth after striking out twice would you go for the third one?
Also I'm an attractive man. And I think it sucks.
How old are you?
If you're young that will most likely pass. I used to feel HIDEOUS as a teennager. From ages 12-17 i never even wanted to leave the house. Then i grew into myself and realized it was all in my head. We're our biggest critics.
If you're older and you actually feel ugly you should take steps to remedy the situation. Are you overweight? Do you have bad skin? Do you not like your body? Do you want better clothes? Figure out what it is that makes you ugly in your opinion and work to improve it.
I would say a good 60% of appearance is just about effort. When you put in the effort you feel more confident and you look better also.
And at the end of the day yea thats normal. My dads pretty ugly too. He used to always tell me "not everyone can be beautiful" and thats the truth. Doesn't make you any less of a great person though.
Ps. Personality can make up for looks in a big way. I've met ugly girls who were able to attract me based on their personality alone. Everyone likes a happy helpful person.
I'm told to be good looking a lot. I don't have a ton of friends nor a romantic partner. I only have one person I care to keep in contact with and I generally had more friends when I was younger and hideous.
Keep your chin up. Sure, attractive people have some things in life easier but that doesn't mean those things are closed off from you obtaining. I don't know if you really are ugly (a picture could help) but if so, work on your personality. There are other ways of attracting people (not just sexually) than being physically appealing. :)
I'm ugly like you are. I have facial scars and crooked teeth. But, I am a good person, and I am glad that I have a warm heart.