Is it normal that i'm so lonely?

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I usually have no trouble making friends. But now-a-days, it seems like people I typically communicated with a lot just randomly stop talking to me.

I don't even think I'm doing anything particularly wrong. I act the same from the beginning. I'm not too needy, or too distant. I can't think of anything I do to turn them away. Of course, they could just stop liking me, but it's happened so many times recently that I'm just confused.

I'm always alone. I usually made plans or went out with friends but now it's like no one even tries in friendships. Plus I don't want to annoy anyone with my presence, since it seems like that's what have been happening.

Did they text me back days later? Nope. I see them in public and wave - do they wave back? Nope. I make plans - are they ever available? Nope.

I don't want to bother anyone but at the same time I'm so lonely. I don't know what I did wrong. Is this normal?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I'm guessing that this is the key to your problem, "I don't want to annoy anyone with my presence". People can feel those sorts of feelings in others and it's damned uncomfortable to be around those who feel that way about themselves.
    People just aren't all that complicated. If they are spending time with you, then they must be getting something that they like from the experience. Accept that at face value. Stop looking for a deeper meaning; there probably isn't one.

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