Is it normal that i'm scared to have sex for the first time?
I'm 18 and a girl if that makes any difference.
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I'm 18 and a girl if that makes any difference.
Be patient with yourself; take it slowly. Wait for a special friend who you trust. Don't have intercourse right away. You can build trust and comfort by kissing, and stroking his penis off with some hand lotion. Intercourse can wait until later on when you can both tell it's the best way to make your relationship complete.
You 18 so what?. There is no law saying you have to loose your cherry at a certain age. When it happens, it happens. I don't remember being nervous or scared. it just kinda happened.
I'd say that nervousness is normal. But if you aren't ready you shouldn't push it either.
It will probably hurt so yes. Wait to share it with someone special so it will still be a good experience.
I was petrified, all my friends lost theres at such a young age. I had awful fears of the pain which my mum told me she suffered however that could have been to put me off. Others also talked about a chance of pain which i was so scared of. My first boyfriend tried so hard for me to sleep with him but i was so scared and thats all he wanted. I finally lost it with my 3rd boyfriend, he made it his goal to do it which was bad and kind of wished id saved myself for someone more special who i loved. However if you plan to loose it ever make sure you feel comfortable any pain or discomfort and you will regret it but oncw you find a special person to share yourself with honestly you will love it. Not just the pleasure of sex itself but the feeling of being with someone and sharing such a sacred moment together which will enhance your comfort and pleasure, good luck!
But always remember sex isn't the biggest part of a relationship find ways to be with each other without sex or youll end up with a meaningless relationship of sex and nothing else.
Hope this helps