Is it normal that i'm obsessed with sex & know what i like but 100% virgin?

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I'm 18, a virgin, & completely sex crazed.

A little background: all through my teenage years I've been told I don't look like a virgin, mainly because I have a full figure & a big ass. A lot of the time I've been told that I have "sex appeal" before I've never known what that meant, but as I get older & start coming into my own & my curiousty sparks about my sexuality - I understand what that means more now. I started watching porn & masterbating at 16-17. Mainly got off to lesbian porn. Which is why I'm bi-curious. I started sexting & turned out to be naturally really good at it. Never taken pics though. That's my number one no-no. Anyways I've never done anything but kiss a guy. No bj's, no fingering, no groping, no dry humping - nothing. I'm literally the most virgin-est virgin I know lol. Anyways, here I am today - 18 nothing's changed except I've gotten really comfortable in my sexuality.

I know what type of sex I want, how I want it, how to get a guy off, I even know your weak spots just by studying you. I don't need to try it in person to know it will turn you on. I'm really confident when it comes to my sex. It's weird. I'm so self assured yet have 0 experience but I know naturally in me for certain.

I just want to know if I'm not being crazy & this is a natural thing because every time I say something about sex, people don't understand how I could be about such things if I've never had any experience. I wanna prove them wrong. Help me out please ):

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  • disthing
    10 years ago

    It's probably because you have 0 actual experience that you're so confident, and "obsessed". I expect once you actually enter into a sexual relationship you'll realise a couple of things - that you don't know it all, and that sex isn't deserving of obsession.

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    • RomeoDeMontague
      10 years ago

      This.. it is the truth

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago

    Guys make the same mistake. Virgin guy looks at porn, thinks he knows shit. Is surprised when the girl doesn't want to do half the weird shit he's seen in porn. Don't let that stuff get into your head to much, nothings tops real experience with a real person. Don't let that effect your confidence, confidence is good! Over confidence is bad though

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Good for you. Give all that hot little package of fun you got to the best guy you can find, in your own time. He'll be the luckiest god-damn son-of-a-bee on the planet.

    I sure as hell wish it were me.

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I can partially understand where you're coming from, although what I feel confident isn't sex, just my own self. I don't know how to explain it. But anyways, I've heard of plenty of virgins who really want to have sex. You can't really blame the people who look at you weirdly though, because really confidence doesn't really equal actual knowledge. I could feel confident about my chemistry test, but that doesn't mean I'm going to ace it. You say you want to prove them wrong, but really, I don't think you should attempt sex with someone just to prove people wrong. How would they even believe you anyways, I mean like how is that conversation not going to be awkward?

    If you want to have sex, then try to find someone you like. But just be careful. You sound like a confident person and that's great. There's nothing wrong with wanting a sexual relationship, just you know, be safe.

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  • shuggy-chan
    10 years ago

    Haha full-figured

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