Is it normal that i'm obsessed with my boyfriend

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My boyfriend is amazing, Ive been with him for over a year. Hes the perfect man, Im obsessed with him. He has never done anything wrong, ever. He just doesnt have time for me.

He has moved away to Uni Mon-Fri and he goes on about 3 army training weekends a month, so he doesnt really have alot of time for me, plus the fact he has on average 2 essays/week to do, he needs to keep fit and have a social life as well.

Ive asked him to prioritise, and maybe put me first? or second or third? I dont mind, I just dont want to come last all the time. This has lead to me texting/calling him whenever I know hes free but I can tell its getting on his nerves. If he doesnt answer I will ring every 30mins to see if hes free yet.

He says Im a clingy girlfriend, am I?What am I doing wrong?

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  • yeah_buddy
    13 years ago

    That's too much bullshit to read. I'm going to get supa stoned now. Good luck hoe.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    be there when he needs you that is all that is needed.

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  • DeadPixel
    12 years ago

    Guys HATE it when girls are clingy. The less space you give him the more he will force you away to get it. I never was clingy as far as acting out but I do think about my b/f A LOT when I am not around him, and that much I don't know if it is normal.

    However it's kinda fucked up if he constantly puts other people before you, especially if he is too busy otherwise. Mine puts me as his main priority of people to spend time with out of choice. For a great relationship, couples should be like best friends too; not just sex partners.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    if he thinks you dont deserve "his preciuos time" then leave him. there are a lot of guys who put you in first /second position and not at last.

    everyone has their own life, but its about priorities.
    so dump his ass

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  • Noobunderground2
    13 years ago

    Make him "want you"

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  • Dagan
    13 years ago

    Obsession is an ugly thing. That is a dangerous place to be. He is free to take notice of someone else and really hurt you.

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    it's normal to miss him a lot when he's not with you, or want more attention. but i sorta agree w/ randomjelly..don't get too needy. being too clingy usually pushes someone away more. if he really loves you, he will make time for you in his schedule.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Kick him in the nuts for leaving.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    It's normal to want more attention but just try not to be too clingy. If he doesn't make you a priority now then that speaks volumes. When you are truly wild about someone...they are always a top priority.

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  • scotty4444
    13 years ago

    Your reaction is perfectly normal, and so is his. Your situation is normal and a bit tragic too. Your wanting to be with him more and more because he puts you last will only make you miss him and want to be with him more. He is busy so he doesnt go through it the same as you. And him wanting to push back, when you push him is normal too. HOWEVER, if he is not taking time to see you before social activities that dont include you, then it breaks my heart to say its probably doomed. The only way to get him totally interested in you would be to do the opposite of everything you are doing now and you know thats unlikely to happen. Which means, its just a matter of time...Im sorry. You deserve to be happy. We all do.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    that's life... seem all relationship are problematic nowadays cause of time issues

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  • harrypotters
    13 years ago

    Id say it is normal to want more attention, i agree with you that he should spend more time with you if it is only one weekend a month or so. If he is able to do it one day for social life other day for you or something simmilar.

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