Is it normal that i'm not very attracted to my boyfriend?

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Well, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and I consider our relationship to be normal ( some days are better than others, we have occasional issues but nothing that can't be settled without talking) except well...sex. We've both been struggling with it for a while and well...I just don't have the heart to tell him that I really (really, really, really) wish he was...in better shape... I really like his face, he's tall and aside from relatively frequent stress (mostly because of college) he's just a great person overall...but...he could be in better shape...It really pains me to admit it but...it really matters to me. I just can't seem to get over it and it's getting really frustrating. I'm really scared of telling him just how important this is for me. I try to give little hints now and then...but it barely seems to work and I really don't wanna make him feel bad, especially taking into consideration how difficult I find it to look "right"(it's something I still struggle with, but I'm willing to work it out) and he's never been one with an excellent self esteem.

P.S: Sorry for such a long post. I'm trying to be as clear as possible.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    you should tell him so he know what to fiz

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    It is what comes from the heart that is important! When you truly love someone you overlook any short comings they might have, sort of blinded by love, it is a shame your love is not strong enough! Good luck with your choices.

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    • Red_Sheep
      12 years ago

      Trust me, I've tried to over look it long enough. Also,if there's anyone who understands the value of "what's inside", it's me; it's not like I'm gonna brake up with him because of that and I think we've been through enough to be able to identify ourselves as "in love" (and a strong amount of it at that) and it's not like I'm expecting him to be perfect.

      However, I think the problem might have taken care of itself anyway. I guess only time will tell.I suppose I only require some patience.

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