Is it normal that i'm intimidated by my...

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I've been intimidated by my boyfriends sister for quite some time. I don't know why, it's just she's so pretty, and she's just intimidating. She's shorter than me, no I'm not a pussy, but trust me she's really savage.

I remember one time she basically called me lazy, and at that moment I started trying to avoid her. I don't know what it is.

Jealousy is not an option here, I never get jealous of others looks, but I am a bit jealous of her confidence, and that intimidates me.

This post is making no sense, but basically what can I do to get over it? How can I just let it go and be comfortable.

I don't want to talk to my boyfriend about it because he will probably get disappointed, or not understand. Please reply aha

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    You need to get things in proportion: calling someone lazy doesn't make her savage, just rude.

    Ignore her .... to be honest, I can't see the problem here and stop obsessing about trivialities

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Its not just that she called me lazy. Everything she talks about is rude. She picks the negatives out of a lot of people. All she cares about is gossip.

      It may not be a problem to you, but it is to me. But thanks for your 'advice'

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        Obviously you can't change her, you can only change your response to her and I suggest again, just ignore her. If she's as horrible as you say, others must realise it too, so you could also observe how other people deal with her behavior.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          7 years ago

          Thank you

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  • _Jesus_
    7 years ago

    Carry yourself a little better. Work on your confidence, posture and manner of speaking. Grow a calm and inviting demeanour.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thank you :)

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  • issamoon
    7 years ago

    i too get intimidated by rude people
    i just avoid them

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Its really hard to avoid her when i see her every time i go over to his house :(

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