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I'm in love with a guy who only talks to me when it's convenient for him. When he's around it's great, but when he ignores my messages, then I hit a low and I'm very depressed. Why does he treat me like this?
Well i guess that really depends how much your always trying to talk to him.
I think this is normal, i mean seriously he has a whole other life going on probably with hobbies, responsibilities, family, other friends. You guys are not exclusive, he is not obligated to talk to you everyday and anytime you want.
It does not mean he's a jerk. He probably has a lot going on. You are just to close blinded with so much love. Im pretty sure its nothing personal when he ignores you. You say its all good when you do talk right? So step back a little girl and don't be hurt. I hope all goes well.
Its very normal...same thing is going on with me..and yes it is upto us how much WE want to give them..Just back off for a while and see...if that person does not come back to you it means your so called friend doesnt worth your care.I know we cant stop our heart to remember them at every possible moment ot cnt stop our hands to dial their number,,,but please have patience..wait and watch and you will find the result.
He treats you like that because he can and because you allow yourself to be treated that way. I'm not saying he isn't a jerk, cause he probably is. If a I were a gambler I'd be willing to bet he's just not that into you. Do yourself a favor, forget about him and move on with your life.
What about blowing you, did my lady attend to you yet? If not I shall find another.
No, of course not. I get the impression from OP that he's stringing her along. But then again, my impression could be completely wrong on this one. If I'm not that into someone and their mad about me I honestly prefer to distance myself from them. Maybe he's trying to do just that slowly and gradually to let her down easy and she's just not getting the hint?
Hopefully, OP will respond to the comments and then more will be revealed.
Im going through the same shit uv been through it with a lot of people thats why i stopped being friends with them its the worst feeling when they act like that
It's impossible to say if you are too needy or if he is just using you, or more likely, it's somewhere in between.
How much are you writing to him ? Why don't you wait for him to talk to you sometimes ? If you talk to him 8 times a day he may be busy or he just doesn't feel like talking. Also if you do that it's a 100% sure he knows you're interested and perhaps he doesn't know how to deal with that.
Guys aren't texters, if we don't feel like texting at the moment we receive a message, then we put it back in our pocket and forget about it.
It's annoying enough to text an actual girl friend, do you really expect him to text you back whenever you bother him?
He treats you like that because u let him. If your gonna get depressed over some loser, you must not think very highly of yourself. There's plenty of Knight's in the Queens Court. Drop that zero girl.
I actually enjoy texting my female friends...well, one of them. I was in love with a bitch who ended up doing this to me. We recently got close again, and then she decides to fucking ignore me for no reason. Then she'll like every Instagram picture I post. It's like she's playing games. My New Years resolution is to stay the fuck away from her. My advice to you is to stay the fuck away from this guy. Sure it will suck at first, but as time goes on you'll realize he was shitty in the first place.