Is it normal that i'm in love with a 13 year old girl?

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I'm 19 year old male, and I am in love with a 13 year old Asian girl. I really do like her, and we talk over the internet almost every day, and she tells me she loves me back, and it makes me smile just talking to her. But I sometimes feel like it's wrong. I feel like a pedophile. But I would never do anything to hurt her or force my self on her, I'm more than willing to wait the years til she's "legal" just to be with her, and even then it isn't about the sex, I just love to talk to her. She actually talks about sex a lot more than me, and even told me she wanted me to cum on her one day, I know she probably doesn't even realize what she means when she says that, but it was still pretty nice of her. c: My question is, will this relationship ever work? Will I always be seen as a perv? When she's 18, I'll be 24, is 5 years really that much apart? We have already made plans to meet in 5 years, she wants to do something sexual, but I just wanna hug her and actually be with her. Please, I'm really confused about this, I like her, but I'm worried about this whole situation. :/ I made her sound like some sort of... whore but she's not, she's just a really sweet girl that from time to time says dirty things because she wants to make me happy. I wanna do what's right in this situation, I AM the adult here, after all. I really do love her, and she says she loves me... I'm just really lost.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    She's not a 13 year old asian girl, she's a 45 year old Nigerian man.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    she will dump you long before that :)

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  • 100Spoon
    10 years ago

    Just hold it off if you are a sex offender you won't be able to because you'll be in prison

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    What if she's a Dateline to Catch a Predator Agent?

    That aside, I think you should wait until she's of age to pursue a relationship.

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  • kittylitter101
    11 years ago

    I think this is a sweet story, besides the fact that she is 13 and you are 19, but I don't think that it will work out. From past experiences, no matter how much you think you love that person, you probably actually don't. After all, you both are still teenagers. You say that when she says she wants you to cum on her, that she doesn't know what that means. How can you expect a girl who doesn't even know what things like that mean to know about what love is? Perhaps you actually love her, but she is young - very young - and has a lot of experiences to, well, experience. She doesn't know it to confirm it. She will most likely move on before you do, and you'll just get even more hurt.
    But! If you two continue to talk and are madly in love with each other, even in the future, my mantra for achieving goals is "patience and planning". You must be patient for your dreams to come true - this is a lesson in delayed gratification. And you must plan for your dreams to come true - you need to be organized and realistic about it too.
    I hope that whatever happens, you end up happy in the end.

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  • [email protected]
    12 years ago

    i'd think about someone ur own age, cause u do force of nature kinda thing, but if u really can wait that long till she turns 18 then do it,i dont condon.
    its societies rules, my bf is 8 years older than me,but were considerably older than u,lol

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  • rayst
    12 years ago

    Are you really that much of an ugly pig to want to wait 5 years to date a kid instead of sum1 your age.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I'm just patient. c:

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    Glad to see you've put thought into this.

    It's very hard to tell, from your point and especially mine, whether she actually love you back. People's concept of love is rather fuzzy until they meet 'the one', many people settle for what they think is love.

    Keep her close, but don't let it turn romantic until shes of an older age.
    So long as you stay close, there's a chance she'll consider you.

    You will get some funny looks from people, and those thinking you're just taking men-date-young to an extreme, but these are only opinions of those outside your relationship. If you're comfortable and so is she, nothing matters.
    There's been way larger age gaps that yours.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Thanks, I really appreciate it! :D

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