Is it normal that i'm in a relationship with my mom's former lesbian girlfriend

She's 57 and I'm a 20-year old woman. I've had a crush on her since she dated mom. I moved in with her. She wants to take care of me.

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  • gxdezlh

    This is a stupid question. Why would you think it's normal for a 20 year old girl to be in a relationship with an old lady??? i mean come on.

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    • Ellenna

      Why on earth would the difference in age make any difference whatsoever?

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      • gxdezlh

        It's not socially acceptable for a 20 year old girl/woman to be in a relationship with an old lady. That is just the way it is.

        As for my personal opinion on if it's morally wrong, I don't know. But I know it's not considered normal.

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  • Aries

    sounds like a great sugar mama ! if you like her then i'd say make the most of it while it lasts .

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  • Ellenna

    Go for it if it makes both of you happy. Is your mother OK with it?

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    • She seems to be okay with it. She's in another lesbian relationship. She once told me not to let anyone stop you from doing what you want to do. I don't have to work, so I take care of the home, and I love seeing her when she gets home from work. She has children and a couple of her grandchildren are teenagers.

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      • Ellenna

        Sounds fine to me as long as you're happy with being the stay at home wife. Personally I couldn't stand it because I don't like being dependent on anyone, male or female.

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        • Thank you for telling me to go for it. I've been so attracted to her for awhile. When I was finally brave enough to tell her how I felt about her, she was very excited.

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  • JohnMcBain1967

    Well technically she's old enough to be your grandmother and personally I would never get involved with someone that old because realistically speaking in 20 years she's going to be dead of old age and you're only gonna be 40 years old. Guess she's your sugar Mamma

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  • kelliekelliekellie

    dude that sounds super twisted. but whatever floats your boat. sounds like you've had some family issues or what not in the past

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  • You'll break your mum's heart. Is it worth it?

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    • Mom seems to be okay with it.

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      • No awkwardness between you?

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  • EccentricWeird

    Yeah, you've made some excellent life choices I'd say.

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  • NashamaTheWeird

    The age gap seems strange to me, as does the fact she used to be with your mother. What does your mother think about this?

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    • She seems to be okay with it.

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  • cinderellasundergarments

    yes of course she wants to look after you.

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