Is it normal that i'm in a relationship but haven't had sex

I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now and we haven't had sex yet, every time we go to do it I freak out and have to stop. I think it's all down to my first time being really awful. I'm scared that soon he'll break up with me because he's ran out of patience

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  • Ellenna

    It seems you need some professional help with this: I'd be finding a good counsellor if I were you. It doesn't sound as if it's going to improve without support.

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  • Girl_101

    Because me and my boyfriend go to have sex. We're both naked when I completely freeze and freak out. Please stop commenting on my post now

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  • Girl_101

    I don't eat cunts
    I'm 18
    I don't know about anal sex

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    • PENISBRAIN

      Try eating cunts , you will like it.
      Bald ones taste sweet and deep rim their assholes seeing the 2 holes are only 1 or 2 inches apart from each other.
      Have them sit on your face and tongue fuck their cunts and deep rim their booty holes until they cum , pee , fart , shit.
      Mens motto is once you get past the hair , you got it licked.
      Also , try cocks in your ass , females say it feels better than cocks in their twats.
      Triple penetration with a cock in your bald cunt , a cock in your poop chute , a cock in your mouth , all at the same time.
      You say you havent had sex , but you say you have seen cocks in person before.
      If you have seen them in person , how come they didnt stick them in your snatch ?

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    • Tempest-au

      Ignore this "Penisbrain" fool - he is nothing but a troll. Every time they ban him, he just creates another account and carries on with the same bullshit.

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      • Girl_101

        Thank you!!❤️

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  • PENISBRAIN

    Do you even know what a cock and balls look like ?
    Have you ever seen a cock and a set of nuts in person ?
    Have you ever had the cock in your bald cunt , ass and mouth ?
    The motto is that if 2 people arent sexually attractive to each other enough by the 3 rd date to have sex , it won't work out.
    Usually females that have been raped have a mental block and they cant have an orgasm, no matter what the boyfriend has or what he tries.
    I was with a woman who was sexually molested when she was 4 or 5 years old and she said she has never been able to cum or climax since then.
    She is 57 years old now.

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    • Girl_101

      Of course I've seen a cock
      Not had a cock in my ass

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  • Tempest-au

    I'm all for honesty. Obviously this guy likes you a lot, because (no offence) you're obviously carrying emotional baggage here and he is still sticking around. Before things get heated, just explain what the problem is (that you were raped), and that you want to be the one in control of the situation. Then proceed at a pace you are comfortable with - nice long foreplay, and then have him on the bottom and you on top (to help break the mental connection to the past). Hopefully after a few times you will learn that sex doesn't have to be a traumatic experience.

    If that fails, get professional help - because it's going to be a problem in any relationship.

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  • RandomNumbers

    iif you are afraid because of a awful first time, try talking to him. Don't need to (and i dont recomend) saying about your first time, but tell him that you want it but are too nervous, and ask him to go nice so he can calm you

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  • mysistersshadow

    Easy come easy go.

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    • Girl_101

      What's that supposed to mean?

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      • mysistersshadow

        It means if he doesn't like how your acting i.e. not giving up sex then there will be another one along soon enough. That said if you can't control him without sex you have some learning to do guys aren't that hard to keep in line if you know what your doing.

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    • Ellenna

      WTF does that mean?

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