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My boss is very professional however I try to do things to manipulate him to give me attention. He is falling for me and I'm drawing back because I just like having power not cheating.
how would you feel if your husband did this with a women at his work and she started falling for him?
If you mess with the bull, you get the horns.
No sympathy from here. Your bluff got called.
This is not normal whatsoever. This is wrong, mean, and sociopathic behavior. I shame woman who manipulate another's emotions just for your benefit. You need professional help. I'm a guy that sees right through that crap. Manipulating people's emotions for Personal benefit is exactly what a sociopath does. What you are doing is absolutely wrong. If you have a good heart you will stop. What I see is insecurities with yourself for the need for power. I think it derives from your past. You have personal issues that have been undealt with. You should see a professional.
Typical woman in all honesty.
The ones who arent like this are the ones who are the real catches. And they are very few and far between.
Why thank you! Just felt like saying that. ha
But I actually don't like getting attention from men. Now if I had a relationship with a guy I would like half the power. But I would feel awful messing with a guys feelings a friend or not. I hate the feeling of even just leading a guy on just a little bit; which I never try too.
I understand that I am attractive because I get a lot of guys that approach me but I don't ever act as if I'm sexy; I'm just my normal goofy self.
I've actually heard guys say that I'm a cock tease but they are normally the ones who think they are the best and just because I'm friendly doesn't mean I want them. It's tough not being friendly to people.
Also this isn't normal. There's reasons I dislike my own sex at times. This is a great example. All I'm thinking is poor guy right now. :( Actually poor guy(s).
Everyone likes attention, especially if the attention is coming from someone who the individual cares about.
You shouldnt feel guilty about being nice to people at all.
At least you seem to have a conscience about not messing with someone's head either.
Yeah I do agree on that. I do worry a lot about people.
Plus if me being friendly to that person makes them think that I want them they should ask. Also if we are friends why would I still want to be friends with someone who calls me a cock tease for being nice to them and not touchy feeling and flirty.
It is nice to feel desired but you're not being fair when you just tease someone!
I want to say it is normal for I know many women that have a desire to control a man through his emotions or lust or what have you.
Don't do it. Seriously. I dated my boss before marrying my husband and some men get -very- emotionally attached in relationships and he was one of those men. I did not get attached to him so we broke up and I was done with it, but every time I would talk to him I would keep it friendly and he interpreted that as me wanting him and he would pursue pursue pursue, and now when I see him I have to be very cold towards him and it is a bit uncomfortable to do that to someone that still feels pain over you rejecting them.
Don't do it, your boss may get the wrong idea. It is dishonerable to pursue a married woman or have feelings for a married woman and if his Momma raised him right, you're probably making him feel a great deal of shame for wanting you. For real. Stop it.
This is wrong u should, keep it up and ur relationship with ur husband won't last
It's normal to be wanted but this is dangerous. If you truly love your husband you should find out why you seek attention from outside your marriage. We are all chemical and human but there are choices. Please be careful! This is one step away from an affair and it will hurt everybody, trust me! Maybe your husband needs to be more romantic or something or you seek to fill a void left with you from childhood (google women who love too much for examples). You may find yourself in a situation where you have to turn down your boss on a night out or something, this will jeapordise your position in the company. Take care!
I want to say that is not normal, but I've seen a lot of women exhibit this behavior. Honestly just do your boss a favor and quit.
Your a dumbass...why would you say ur happily married and do something so stupid???????? Think about what ur doing to urself!
just your whore reflex normal? yes smart? no do you love your men? no do you really care? no Would i bang you? dunno gimme photos :D
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