Is it normal that i'm depressed because my gf does not enjoy sucking my dick?

Well my wife used to enjoy doing it for me and she did it a lot then she just stopped she won't at all now my birthday coming up in a couple days and Christmas coming up and I told her that's all I want for my bday and or Christmas but she doesn't even like doing anything in the bedroom but the same thing all the time she won't even make the first move I have to read her mind on when she wants even that when it comes to sex with my wife it's boring as hell but I can't cheat on her

I agree with both above posters. Most girls don't like giving blowjobs... And it's understandable. All guys have to do is move their tongue, girls get like choked with some large thing going down their throat. Not fun. Talk to her about it. Maybe you need to clean a little better down there? And don't cum in her mouth if she doesn't want you to. Jesus, it's about her happiness not yours all the time...

Idk but I don't see the op as too unreasonable. Personally I think girls have this idea that sex is all about their pleasure. But fuck it, I love giving my guy head. As op said it's not the act but about turning them on and pleasing them.

Maybe you should find something she likes doing? Like a pleasurable position or some kinda kink. Just try different things with her!

Leave him, a normal girl will Appetite to suckle from her husband's penis and even drink her husband's urine. I still like to swallow sperm and drink his urine without needing to be the other way around.

That's unfortunate. Maybe it's the way you expect head to be performed rather than the act itself - a lot of guys watch porn and basically wanna face fuck you, I love giving head but that is nottt the way to do it and it's extremely unpleasant for the girl. I enjoy licking, sucking, teasing, and generally being more sensual, then you deepthroat just for like the last minute or so and the guy cums so hard I've literally made my boyfriend's knees buckle and his face go numb. Maybe you can ask her to just play around down there at her own speed, tell her not to worry about making you cum but just to enjoy feeling you in her mouth (and obviously, wash, and underneath the foreskin too).

The fact she said she finds it degrading does make me think this is a face-fucking issue so hopefully this way she can enjoy teasing you rather than worrying that you're suddenly gonna try and ram her throat or cum down it (not blaming you, I know it's hard not to get carried away in the moment). Over time she will build confidence and maybe let you finish in her mouth, you just have to show some restraint an if that means finishing off in her hand for a while then do it, at least you'll hopefully get to experience the pleasure of her mouth on you more and over time maybe you'll end up exactly where you want - with a girlfriend who gives awesome blowjobs and is proud and excited to do so!

One of my previous exes didn't like giving bjs. At one time i considered tricking her into doing it, joking! Some women simply don't like it, have never had a girl yet that swallow.

Girls: How do you know if a girl likes giving bjs by her appearance? Is there a code girls give that tell you they are addicted to giving bjs like licking your lips or something lol?

Where to find a bj *scratches head* lmao.

I would suck on your dick! Plus I luv swallowing cum....mmmmmmmm...

personally, I would break up with her. Well actually, i would have never go steady with her at the first place.

Lol Id suck your dick ANY day!

WTF are you on about Randomjelly? If she don't won't to suck your cock dump her. If she loved you she'd suck your cock even if she don't want your cum.

Your excuse is that you go down on her so she should on you? You enjoy it though...and she doesn't. I know it "sucks" that she doesn't enjoy it but it's just how it is.

Coming in her mouth would be gross how dare u want to make her do that !shame on u !sperm grosses me out aswell yay