Is it normal that i'm dating my teacher?

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my teacher and I have been dating for a little less than month and its the best thing that Ive ever been apart of. Although weve only been together for a short while, Ive honestly loved her since the moment I met her five years ago.She is intelligent (she was valedictorian and went to an Ivy League college) and she's caring. She so interesting to just be around. Sometimes we just sit for 45 minutes and do nothing but talk and drink hot chocolate. Im with her sometimes for an hour and a half after school ends, just talking, because being around her makes me feel better about everything. Shes funny, especially when she isnt trying to be. The moment her face lights up with laughter I cant help but light up too. Just seeing her in class can make my entire day worth getting out of bed. But heres the problem...shes married with kids. Im happy for her for being married and im sure she loves her kids but Im so happy...we both are. Help?

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  • Shackleford96
    9 years ago

    "She's married and has kids..."

    Stop, right there.

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  • snowyshadow
    9 years ago

    Dating teachers are fine as long as you both are of age. Being a home wrecker is not okay, sadly though I would say it is something that seems "normal".

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  • nascarlos3
    9 years ago

    This seems more normal than I thought, too bad it didn't happen to me! Um, don't get to excited though, she's married and this will certainly not last

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  • gentleman97
    9 years ago

    Honestly man I dated a teacher of mine for a month and it was the best experience of my life. We actually loved one another but we both knew it wouldn't, it couldn't, last. That kept us grounded and as long as you two remember your limitations, and you honestly love her, I see nothing wrong with it.

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  • ObscureReference
    9 years ago

    Are you in high school or college?

    Either way, you need to wake up and realize that this woman is putting you in a situation that can only end in tears for a lot of people, especially you.

    This is NOT normal. If you have any doubts about it, why don't you ask her? Hey, let's talk about where this is going. In the end, are you going to leave your husband for me? Are you going to expect me to be a father to your children? Are you going to just abandon them? I mean, you can ask her these serious questions and get some serious answers, or keep living in your highly volatile dream world. Those are really your only two options.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Im in high school and I know that when I graduate were done. I would never want her to traumatize her kids in any way.

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      • ObscureReference
        9 years ago

        Well, that's good, at least... that you know that you two don't have a future. But perhaps you should consider the present. There are so many things that could go wrong here, like you getting in deep shit with your school, your parents, her with the law, perhaps losing her teaching license. And if it's truly a concern for you not to traumatize her children, then consider the fact that if you two get caught before you end it, it will still hurt them. You really need to end this.

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  • PR1NCE
    9 years ago

    Fuck No it's not normal.This is almost every teenage boy's dream(Why doesn't this shit happen to me,god dammit!)

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    • nascarlos3
      9 years ago

      you gave me a good laugh.

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