Is it normal that i'm counseling my best friend's ex after their breakup?

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It's been almost a year since they broke up. They still both care about each other. Both think it was some kind of horrible tragedy that they're not together.

I like her boyfriend. He was really good for her. But don't necessarily think they are right for eachother.

He's been messaging me a lot lately, about how he loves and hates her. How he feels like all of the light has gone from his life. He talks to me about it more than she does. And how he feels like no other girl will ever stack up to her. They're both adults.

I understand how he feels for the most part, because all of the problems he's had I've had, and I still love her to death. We've been best friends for almost 15 years. I want what's best for her.

Is it normal that I'm talking to him like this? They both want to be together, but don't. She doesn't know the extent of our conversations.

Is that normal? Is it okay? I'm at the point where I have no idea what, if anything, do do.

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  • Johnnytherat
    10 years ago

    you said do do.... BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Hook up with him. I'm pretty sure he will be over her in no time, especially if you give him good bj's

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    You should go out for pizza.

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