Is it normal that i'm attracted to other girls more than my girlfriend?

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I've been with my girlfriend for five months. We've had sex and I've seen her when she's most vulnerable. Don't get me wrong, she's beautiful. But I just can't help that I'm attracted to other girls-even the ones that are less attractive than her (physically). But I keep finding myself drooling over other girls because of their sex appeal I don't really have a strong emotional connection to my girlfriend either..p. Thoughts?

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  • danman72
    13 years ago

    Dude totally normal. You've already seen her at her most vulnerable so the animal instinct in you wants to see more chicks in the same state. What's going to happen though is that if you do act on impulse and cheat on her and you guys break up, you will start to look at her and want her back because we as humans always want what we can't have its just human nature. So if she is as beautiful as you say she is stay with her and milk it as much as you can you won't regret it, what you will regret is losing her over a stupid one night stand.

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    Very normal. It's an odd thing about guys; it doesn't mean you don't love her, it's just your mind wandering. Just don't leave her for one of these 'attractions' you'll find the hard way it isn't what you want.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    If you don't have a strong emotional connection then why are you with her?

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  • samsmybaby
    12 years ago

    yur girl aint goin to like it if she already dosent now

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  • cooldavid
    13 years ago

    Its normal to be attracted to other girls, but if you value the relationship, you won't act on it without discussing it with her first.

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  • amoresuicidio
    13 years ago

    Your mind is unconciously thinking about what if would be like to be with another woman. It's normal. I love my fiance very much, but I am attracted to other men. I think about being sexually involved with them too. Everybody has wandering thoughts. But don't act on impulses.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Normal to feel that way, but what separates us from the rest of the mammals, is that we don't act on those impulses - we value the emotional connection more than the sexual impulses.

    If it's really bothering you, you should be single.

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