Is it normal that i'm aroused by men having sex, but not when i am with a man?

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Hi. I'm bi, 19, black, and I'm TOTALLY aroused when men have sex or even play around. But when I do it (sex that is), it's nothing like what I expect. I was just recently with this really sexy white guy, but I mostly only got pleasure from him being pleasured by me. I'm not emotionally attracted to them, so I think that may be it. Is it because I haven't met the right person yet? What do you think? Thanks in advance for your MATURE input.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I think it might have a lot do with not feeling close to the person...

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  • MagickWithoutTears
    12 years ago

    You just haven't met the right guy yet.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    I'm not sure where race plays a part in this post? Try yellow?

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