Is it normal that i'm afraid my bi sexual girlfriend will leave me for a boy?

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I'm a lesbian and I've been with my girlfriend for a total of almost 8 months. She just told me last night that she's bisexual and I cried like a baby. I know that she loves me and wouldn't cheat on me but I'm afraid one day down the line she might start to miss guys and will end up leaving me for one. Is it weird that I'm freaking out about this so much? I really need some advice!

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Don't worry about it till it becomes a problem.

    If you end up being depressing and negative she will leave you.

    You need to find something about her that makes you happy and focus on that not on what may or may not happen.

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    • CatherineBJones1208
      10 years ago

      You're right. Thank you for that answer!

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  • GinnyWeasley
    10 years ago

    I once dated a guy who was bi(i am a girl) and i used to feel the same way but its just in your head. If she is with you it because she likes you. Period.

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    • CatherineBJones1208
      10 years ago

      Thank you for your input, it made
      me feel better! :)

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    What you need to remember is that she has been with YOU for eight months. She obviously likes you!

    There's some solutions for the two of you if you fear that she will miss guys, but it isn't for everyone.

    You could allow her to have sex with guys. My Bf is straight and he has nothing against me whoring about with other girls (With or without him) As would i allow him to have sex with other men if he had desired such a thing. But judging by your reaction when she told you that she were Bi ... i doubt this is something that would work for you.

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  • _Molotov_Cocktail_
    10 years ago

    Keep a couple of molotov cocktails handy, so she knows who's boss. Keep her off the STRAIGHT and narrow, so to speak.

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  • eternalsmoke31
    10 years ago

    Yeah, but she will be back when she is in between dicks. Leave now before she breaks your heart, bisexual chicks are nothing but trouble.

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  • YoungerSis
    10 years ago

    She might be trying to tell you that she wants to see guys too. I know that isn't what you want to hear.

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    • CatherineBJones1208
      10 years ago

      She said she was telling me because we never had a talk about it because we met on a dating site and she was there specifically to find a girl so I just kind of assumed her sexuality

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  • davesumba
    10 years ago

    That makes no sense whatsoever. Why aren't you as worried about her cheating on you with another woman? Does that not count for you or something.

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    • CatherineBJones1208
      10 years ago

      It counts but doesn't worry me

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  • 69
    10 years ago

    but i tell you one thing if she were to leave you she'd do it for a guy, a girl, a job, a monkey, anything. don't you trust her feelings for you?

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    • CatherineBJones1208
      10 years ago

      I do I was just freaking out about it because it was new to me. I try to steer clear of bi girls because a lot of times I find that they are confused but I know its all in my head

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