Is it normal that i'm a girl and in love with my best friend...who's a girl?

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I met my best friend only this year. We started getting really close and talking about really personal stuff after we discovered we had a similar problem.
We can both trust eachother with anything. I feel like I've known this girl my whole life.
We see eachother whenever we can even if it gets us in trouble. When we're not together, we text eachother from the time we wake up to the time one of us falls asleep on the other.
I am bisexual but I don't think she KNOWS that. I'm scared to tell her. She's straight. She's not usually the type of girl I go for but she seems perfect to me and "I" think she's beautiful just the way she is.
Everytime we see eachother we run up to eachother and hug just like any other couple. We lecture eachother about random stuff mothers lecture about. We tell eachother the other looks cute or pretty. We say "I love you" everyday...
I love her more than anyone in this world. I would kill for her and I would die for her. If I had one wish, I would wish for every single one of her wishes to come true.
I am an emotional wreck...everytime i think of her I want to cry. Everytime I SEE her I want to cry. I've started crying in front of her before and when she'd get all concern and ask WHY I can't TELL her....I can't TELL her "I'm crying because I'm in love with you and I know you'll never love me the way I love you." Even when she makes me happy, I want to cry because I'm HAPPY but I'm only happy because I'm with her. I really wish I could get over this and just go on being her best friend.
Is this normal?

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Based on 48 votes (45 yes)
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  • SATC
    13 years ago

    I'm in exactly the same situation and it sucks. Being in love with someone who doesn't love you back is horrible.

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  • Andyailin
    13 years ago

    You gotta tell her if want to know whats going on in herhead

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  • adtrbfmv
    11 years ago

    Hey I'm in a situation where a girl told me they loved me a day later I said it back their response was "okay" so I think that you can do better than me, go fr it, FYI Idk how old this is cos I iZ on a phone ;)

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  • heyywhatup
    11 years ago

    I know exactly how you feel, my best friend told me she was bi a while ago, and i helped her get a date with a bi girl she liked, even though im in love with her. i hate her girlfriend. she doesnt treat her right and acts like a total jerk to her. this sounds exactly like what she was telling me last year about a different girl. i now moved across the country from her and wish so badly that we could be together, but ever since she started dating this chick, she ignores me as a friend, and it kills me inside... that i didnt tell her how i felt before i left, i would tell your best friend you like her, before its to late

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  • haterofeve
    12 years ago

    You have to tell her because if your as close as you say you are , then she's gonna know something is up anyways . And she might just surprise by being understanding

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  • SoCal
    12 years ago

    she might be straight but you're a lesbo

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  • Chayce
    12 years ago

    All girls are a bit more bi than guys.

    And from all guys from IIN, we wish you good luck.

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  • trooool
    12 years ago

    i think it's okay..well this post is old but...meh i say it's normal..my gf is bi and i totally respect that.

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  • jamesastonn
    13 years ago

    This question comes up a lot on here

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  • georgienne
    13 years ago

    Maybe she's bi but you don't know that..

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