Is it normal that i'm 22 and i didn't have sex yet?

So I'm turning 22 in 2 months and I didn't have sex yet, I slept with a girl before and we did stuff but i didn't penetrate, It was a nice experience, the problem is where I live it's soo difficult to have sex before marriage.
Should I try hard to do it? Or should I just wait till the chance comes?

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    Definitely normal, especially if you're introverted. I personally know a man who was 25 and a woman who was 36. Nothing was wrong with either of them.

    22 is nothing. Don't rush this. Let it happen.

    Sex is just a (potential) part of life, not an achievement.

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  • Grunewald

    You don't need to have sex at all. As others have implied, sex is just one life option.

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  • sweetone89

    I didn't have sex for the first time until I was 30. I'd wait until the chance comes. And, please, do it with someone experienced. My first time was horrible because the guy did not know what to do.

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  • jrbsportz

    Dude some people explore sex early and some late it's all normal. Sex will come when time is right with the right person, you dont have to be like everybody else be true to you!! Just saying

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  • 1. 27
    2. never fucked
    3. can't tell if I like girls or boys better
    4. fucks given in this sitch are equivalent to the number I've received

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    I am, shall we say, of mature years and have never had sex. I am asexual and just not interested. I do have a celebrity crush though (namely The Guvnor).

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  • RoseIsabella

    Save yourself for someone you love.

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  • bbrown95

    Normal. As S0UNDS_WEIRD said, sex is a (potential) part of life, not an achievement. There is no race to do it by a certain age. In my opinion, it's something that should be done when you personally feel ready, and definitely not rushed, regardless of your age.

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  • hauntedbysandwiches

    Lots of people wait until marriage many lie and say they lost it because they feel societal pressures but being a virgin at 22 is completely normal and more common than you probably realize

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  • ThatOneGuyYouNeverWantToMeet

    Didn't try it (heavy emphasis on try) until I was 20, got bored about 4 minutes into it & walked out.

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  • Trevir

    Pay for sex if your that curious

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  • Tommythecaty

    *haven't had

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  • Guys I need to, I should clear that I'm in a relationship with a girl that I really love but where I live it's almost impossible to do the thing so now should I wait more? Or do the impossible?

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  • Tinybird

    I'm 24 and have never had sex and I'm even a girl. Only I've had sex with my tornado husband but no human

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    • S0UNDS_WEIRD

      Sorry, I've got to ask at this point; is your husband an actual tornado that passed by or is he your plushie? What is tornado husband's name?

      Don't answer any of that if you don't want to. Not trying to be weird. You just say it all the time so I'm curious.

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      • Tinybird

        Well he's just a literal tornado with a cute face (but other people can't see him) and I just made a plushie of him. Btw his name is Gustav <3

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        • Tinybird

          https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=gustav+tornado&hl=en&tbm=isch&sxsrf=ALeKk01vEDhF1nW-FUe-wK1HtKEMeDXz_g%3A1622845127837&source=hp&biw=1600&bih=789&ei=x6a6YIuGMImqUKGpu7AO&oq=gustav+tornado&gs_lcp=CgNpbWcQAzIECCMQJzIECCMQJzoCCAA6BQgAELEDOgYIABAIEB46BAgAEB46BAgAEBhQpwRY3Q9gnBJoAHAAeACAAWqIAawIkgEEMTEuMpgBAKABAaoBC2d3cy13aXotaW1n&sclient=img&ved=0ahUKEwjLhfiagf_wAhUJFRQKHaHUDuYQ4dUDCAc&uact=5

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  • fatok

    Dude, stop jerking off every night and get a girlfriend or boyfriend to fuck

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    • Millions of virgins across the world commiserate in sorrow and seek connectedness through the world wide web. Right now, you can help a sexually-frustrated virgin on the internet by reaching out to jerk him off. Think of the joy you will bring these tormented souls by releasing the semen from their unused penises. I encourage you all to reach out and provide a hand to all frustrated 20-something virgins today, and make the world a better place.

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        Haha

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    • S0UNDS_WEIRD

      I think you're projecting your own problems here.

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