Is it normal that i'm 18 and have never dated?

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I'm 18 and 5 months. I've never dated. Mostly because I went to an all-girls school (weird, i know) and now I'm in college and I have real guy friends for the first time. But everyone I know is dating or in a relationship or has dated. I'm not an introvert, and I don't mean to brag, but I am quite funny and I enjoy being social. I don't understand how everyone but me ends up being single. I know I don't have to date and I'm a strong, independent woman who don't need no man and all, but I feel shitty and unliked. Which sucks.
Is it normal to have not dated or ever kissed a guy at 18?
Knowing me, I probably won't until I'm married.

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Based on 31 votes (28 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds like your biggest problem might be your attitude.
    "I'm a strong, independent woman who don't need no man" sounds an awful lot like fem lib bullshit, which most guys find quite unattractive.

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    • Thedollcollector8==D
      8 years ago

      The only thing worse than a feminist nazi is the guys who complain about them like little whiny bitches. She most likely isnt even a feminist.

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    • LittleGirlCutThroatSodomized
      8 years ago

      WOW! Another thing we agree on. I'm keeping track that's now 2

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  • LittleGirlCutThroatSodomized
    8 years ago

    I'm a player. I get laid. I date online.

    Whenever I see "I'm a strong, independent woman" in some chicks profile she gets discarded and forgotten about because the flag is too red.

    You are likely damaged by feminism but you are young and can change your mindset easily, that I'd suggest you do

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    • Thedollcollector8==D
      8 years ago

      Or she is just insecure because she is 18 and has not dated anyone. What's up with you guys always jumping to the conclusion that if a female says something like "she is independent" then that means she is a feminist. Anti feminist guys like you are just as annoying as extremist feminists.

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      • LittleGirlCutThroatSodomized
        8 years ago

        My experience allows me to make quick and efficient decisions. Chicks like that aren't hard to lay, infact, even easier but I don't bother with them because they are a high risk liability.

        Hey dumbass White-Knight where did I call her a feminist? Didn't think so. Maybe it's best you keep your dumb fuckin mouth shut or read before you throw up.

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        • Thedollcollector8==D
          8 years ago

          Im no white knight.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    Probably being around only girls has affected the way you are around guys...you probably treat them in an uptight kinda way

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  • lifeisforreal
    8 years ago

    If your as atractive as you say you are guys might think you out of their leuge and you should go to them and flirt with some guys and ask them out instead of waiting for them to come to you

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    I would prefer an independent woman. Needy girls irritate me. I wouldn't want to be with someone who cannot do things for themself.

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  • galen
    8 years ago

    I'm a guy and I never dated until I was 18. In high school there was a chick two years behind me, I hung out with her a lot but we were strictly platonic.

    Then in college I met a gal (I was her math tutor) and we hit it off. I was quite passive and she led me on and we ended up going together, and in bed. We were fucking like animals. I was 18 and she was 20.

    Don't worry, you are still young, there's plenty of time for it to work out for you.

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  • Charli.m.s_Never_Ending_Period
    8 years ago

    Based on the way you wrote your post, you'll never get any action.

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  • Crow
    8 years ago

    What people often forget is that dating is a matter of taste, timing and luck. Yes, you do need a certain level of finesse but that alone doesn't always land you a date.

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  • Jazyritz619
    8 years ago

    Please state that your only 18 years old. "I'm 18 and 5 months"- I dont mean to be harsh, but you sound like a child, just say 18. Also the grass isn't always greener.

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