Is it normal that i love him but...

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This might be a little long, so if you're not interested in reading this much, don't. But it shouldn't be that bad.
Annd don't be mean in the comments please!!

So I really like this guy. ( guy #1) annd he is so adorable and he says he likes me too, but I'm not sure if he just wants to fool around or what. We have kissed, and I gotta say. It was amazing. I think I might love him, but then here comes guy #2. He is so sexy and I really like him too, but I only met him recently. I have known guy 1 since kindergarden, and I'm just realllllllly confused.

Recently, guy 1 has n ot been texting/ calling/ trying to meet up with me. Whereas guy2 calls me every night just so he can hear how my day went. I don't know what to think. Guy 2 is so cute, and sweet and he seems like he really likes me. Guy 1 I have known forever, and we're really close.

What should I do? Should I push myself towards 1 or 2?? I'm just scared this is gonna end up like my last relationship:
( all he wanted to do was fool around. The minute I told him I think I loved him, he broke up with me. He moved away a month later. )
What SHOULD I DO???

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  • WinstonTasteGood
    12 years ago

    Do them both then decide. Try 'em one at a time then both together.

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  • dapplesandbays111
    8 years ago

    Go for guy 2 because if guy 1 because if you really loved guy 1 then you wouldn't have fell in love with guy 2

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  • cannibus14
    12 years ago

    how would you feel if guy #1 was also considering another girl?

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  • starkitty
    12 years ago

    go for guy 2, if that doesn't work out, run crying to guy 1

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  • gemgem
    12 years ago

    guy 2 seems to be acting more of a boyfriend. i think that you say you like him but its more if a likeing/loving your best friend in a friendship way than your boyfriend in a lovey dovey way. id go with guy #1 though you have known him for almost forever and you said you kissed him and it was amazing. a kiss can tell you everything.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Just be friends with both of them until one of the friendships fades - then you'll be left with the right one. No need to rush into anything!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    personal opinion - you have known guy 1 forever if you think you love him this wouldnt be a question but i would give him a chance first and you have to ask him if hes taking to long i hate to say it but people are assholes my ex tried to get pregnant off of me so my advice is stick wth who you trust

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  • HiImATROLL
    12 years ago

    Haha whore

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    • LaughinSkull
      12 years ago

      I was going to yell at you, then I saw the name.

      As for the original poster, Guy #1 sounds like the better choice. But its hard to tell. I would say this though: you should probably choose before one of them gets pissed off your kinda fooling around with two guys. If you're confused if Guy #1 is serious or just wants to fool around, then ASK HIM!

      Also, if he has been your friend since kindergarden, I doubt he just wants to fool around. You guys have been friends a long while, and you don't just fool around with long time friends. You do that stuff with girls you just met at a bar and probably wont ever see again.

      I mean he could of spent all this time being your friend just to get in your pants, but Occam's razor would suggests he likes you.

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