Is it normal that i lost interest in the opposite sex after losing my virginity

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I am a 23 year old male, and I lost interest after losing my virginity in the opposite sex; I was under peer pressure to lose it and once I did I felt like my goal was achieved and therefore am not as motivated in the opposite sex. Now I am akward and weird around girls, and on top of that, people coughing bothers me ( I think it has to do with Lymes Disease I got) I am socially akward nowadays and haven't had a gf for 5 years and going on. IIN? serious question..

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  • sofee59
    7 years ago

    Have you ever tried a male partner?

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  • yourdeepestshame3
    8 years ago

    I can sympathize. This video helped me a bit:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK9CbnMes6U

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    • HalfbreedSamurai
      8 years ago

      Seriously? lol. I guess that's hot for gay dudes lol

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      • Soapy_Testicles
        8 years ago

        It's not a big deal at all. The stereotype, especially for males, is to be hypersexual. Not everyone is going to be like this. Good for you for being comfortable in accepting this. You sound like a normal, decent dude.

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  • iwishiwasyourmom
    8 years ago

    Personally I think it's normal, sex is not that big of a deal to everyone, just ask "Steve" (if he's still around here).

    The rest depends if you still have sexual urges. But there are lots more productive things to be done in life.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    There could be a lot going on here. Were you riding the fence previous to your encounter?

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    • HalfbreedSamurai
      8 years ago

      Riding the fence..? I don't follow..was I apprehensive? Not really I was eager but she wasn't it took a 2 year relationship from around age 16-18, I was her first.

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  • Ms.Dempsy
    8 years ago

    She said she was a lesbian a girl that like girls. She said she was a lesbian a chick that like chicks but every now and then she'll take some dick. Do you mean something like this?

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