Is it normal that i lose my desire for sex after i finish?

Like I'll bone and enjoy it. But as soon as I finish, I am literally just done. Even if said partner wanted to keep going with some cunnilinguist, I just don't care at all and I wanna go watch TV or go to sleep.

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Comments ( 24 )
  • CozmoWank

    My phone stops ringing after I answer it. IIN?

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I feel the same way. I just want to go play a video game or get some food. I'll still keep going for the sake of my partner though.

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  • cipro

    Its normal. Eat her out first before u orgasm.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hello reality!

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  • IrishPotato

    That's selfish, but losing sex drive after the male orgasm is normal.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Exactly!

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    • oofthrowaway

      I have female parts and this still happens to me hah- I think it's normal in genereal. After you are sexually satisfied, there's no real reason to still be aroused. You should still help satisfy your partner though.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Completely normal dude. You've fulfilled your biological need thus it ends. After you eat a hearty meal are you still hungry?

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  • lordofopinions

    It's not right at all to leave your partner in a lurch. Finish her off you selfish bastard!

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  • jackblack999

    yeah i get like hella tired and im like what the fuck is this filth

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  • Oralbuddy

    Just try to spend more time after you cum. Hug kiss have her go down on you and try going down on her. Just take your time with her you'll be amazed how feel and become aroused again

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  • Mi5ty4real

    I think it's normal for you too lose your sex drive after you cum, but you should 1st work on satisfying your partner and then yourself. My husband always makes sure he gets me off, sometimes multiple orgasims... and that's what ends up making him cum is knowing how much he has satisfied me and feeling my pussy pulsate around his cock while I am orgasiming. But he knows how to satisfy me, I can get off within a minute of him inside me, let alone, 5 minutes, 10 minutes.

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  • JustMolly

    Guys can't have multiple orgasms like girls.

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    • Alichael

      I've heard that there have been some guys who can get multiple orgasms.

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  • RoseIsabella

    That's why real men satisfy women before they finish.

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    • McBean

      In contrast, it takes me 45 minutes to get off. I take it slow so she can feel loved. But what if 45 minutes is too much for her?

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      • justfkinwork9000

        There's never too much my friend.

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    • justfkinwork9000

      @RoseIsabella What does pleasuring her have to do with me not caring for sex when i cum? The cause and effect of your statement in response to mine, is literally a random statement.

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      • RoseIsabella

        If you care about her you will please her before you finish.

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        • justfkinwork9000

          Are you assuming that I cum in 20 seconds and walk away? You're silly. Your comment is the same - purely assumption. still has nothing to do with the post...

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          • RoseIsabella

            No, I'm not making any assumptions, but rather going by what you wrote in you own post.

            "...as soon as I finish, I am literally just done. Even if said partner wanted to keep going with some cunnilinguist, I just don't care at all and I wanna go watch TV or go to sleep."

            Your words speak for themselves.

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