Is it normal that i liked men in their thirties at a very young age?

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I know there's already many questions about being attracted to older men but this I feel is a bit more... questionable. Yesterday I found some papers I had written in 6th grade, so at the age of 11 or 12. Based on a nightmare that I remember having at those years, I wrote a short and slightly ridiculous (for the way it was written I mean) story about a 34 year old guy and me falling in love with each other, and at some point of the story he told me that even if I was young and there were 22 years of difference he felt ''I was an adult'' and he told me I was cute and all that. I didn't remember writing that until I saw it, and it makes me feel very disgusted with myself, especially because I still nowadays feel mostly attracted to older men. I doubt I have 'daddy issues', my dad has been with me all my life and he's good to me, but maybe it does have to do with something that went on in my childhood. I don't know. So is it normal, especially at the age I was then?

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  • fratom
    9 years ago

    I guess you are as normal as the day you were born sure you are no different than most young boys and girls who at the age you were 12yearslike and love to have some one to hug and cuddle them with gentle feelings of their anatomy: rubbing bottoms and and yes touching between their legs: I shared this with many my age group when I had similiar feelings as you: I liked it, they liked it: no touching of either my bottom or penis in the bare:
    Just cuddly: Sure most children like their mothers fathers to hug and cuddle them making them feel secure and content: I would say you are quite quite normal: once no abuse took place

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  • Terence_the_viking
    9 years ago

    I was in love with heather Locklear when she was in tj hooker and i was about 5 then hehe.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Young girls / adolescence go through
    stages of life..I don't see why people
    make a big issue as long as your legal
    age when you start liking older men
    I know a website i go on girls age 18
    have no problem with older men in their
    40's..

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Do you consciously remember having such thoughts back then? If so, why? What was the appeal?

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    • eons
      9 years ago

      I don't remember much about how I felt about men back then, if I hadn't found that thing I would have probably never known that I basically lusted after older men in those years. In fact I kinda remember the opposite, being intimidated by them.

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