Is it normal that i like to make girls suffer?

Whenever I'm in a relationship, I try my hardest to make the girl fall deeply in love with me. After I achieve my goal, I just start to disrespect them, ignore them and treat them like they mean nothing to me. This causes these girls to try to latch onto me even more, begging me for attention and clinging onto every last hope that I discretely give them, only to break up with them, when they expect us to get back together. I show no emotions whatsoever during these last moments together, making them feel like they have no control.

I know this is wrong, but I feel the need to do it. It's like a rush, like an addiction. When I feel a girl starts to love me, I sadistically abuse the power I have over her, feeling sweet pleasure by toying with her emotions, ripping her heart into pieces, destroying her self worth and systematically tear her ego apart, to the point she feels hopeless without me.

And then I leave her.

IIN? Is this how the majority of relationships work, or am I just a psychotic control freak?

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Comments ( 25 )
  • howaminotmyself

    It doesn't sound like control to me. Just manipulative. Congrats on being an ass. Nice to see you work hard at something.

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  • dirtybirdy

    Cool story crusades.

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  • chained_rage

    All I know is that I will be laughing so hard when you fall helplessly in love and your partner at that time is as big of a jerk as you and your partner does this to you :)

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  • Royallaw28

    What goes around comes around :)

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Herpes is a bummer but don't let it make you that bitter.

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  • Freedom_

    You are a sad little person. You don't really have power over these females. You just feel like you do. In reality, you're giving them the power to discern a pathetic loser from a real man. A truly powerful man knows how to keep a woman in his life begging for more without childish games, by being real and truly strong. You know they will leave you eventually and that is why you get pleasure from hurting them before they can hurt you, you poor thing.

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    • pixie44

      Amen A REAL POWERFUL MAN respects his/ her woman not takes advantage of them. You should be grateful that you even have people interested in you. You keep doing this word will get around and you will have no one. Time to grow up sir! :)

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  • Dazed_dreamer

    Pathetic. Both ways.

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  • Ehh, I know where you're coming from. I've done it before and it does have a bit of a rush about it. I've done it to men and women so it's not so much that I just want to abuse one sex. I haven't done it for a while because it is a bad thing to do and not right.

    However sometimes I see it as a good thing. I done it to a girl in college who pretty much done the same, if not worse to a guy I knew. So what Royallaw28 said can happen, it can happen right back to you.

    It's a piece of shit thing to do and I will admit doing it. I don't know if it's normal but I do know that it's a dipshitty thing to do.

    My advice would be to stop it. It'll become too much of a habit that you'll end up not knowing how to handle a real relationship and could grow up to not know how to connect with women.

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  • iEatZombies_

    What you're doing is not at all normal. You already well know that it's wrong, so I think you were just hoping that it was also commonplace so that you don't feel like the odd one out. Thing is, it's so uncommon that they make examples out of people like you.
    You're creating a reputation for yourself that people don't find respectable. It'll catch up with you. The women that you're hurting will get over it, but your reputation will engulf you. Where your pain inflicted upon them is fleeting, the pain you create for yourself will follow you.
    Women talk to each other. They have friends, they warn each other, they tell their boyfriends who know people who know you. Social circles are small. The longer you do this, the harder it'll be to correct your reputation. If you stop now, you'll be fine. You apologize, they won't talk shit, you don't hurt women and you can enjoy the positivity that will be returned to you.

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  • sillygirl77

    Somehow I suspect this is a wishful thinking post... you *WISH* you had the power to matter so much to someone. I don't think someone who carries on with so many women breaking their hearts (as the OP claims) doesn't have time to brag about it here.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I know, Mike. I know.

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  • theseeker

    A wise man once told me, “Don’t be a coward.” A coward is a man who is disrespected at the workplace, laughed at, and walked all over by the world. But instead of confronting those things, instead of confronting those people. He goes and takes it out on the people closest to him. You are not a man. You know what you are? You are a fuckin’ coward! Just remember that.

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  • Dad

    For some people compassion must be learned.
    Having compassion and empathy for others, especially when they are upset, is a good thing.

    If someone recently (or even not so recent) was upset because of you, you are best to contact them back and apologize to them, you can also comfort them as well (without leading them on). By the way, ideally this should have been done at the time the person was upset in front of you, but better late than never.

    Once you learn compassion in an automatic way, you can be human again ;)

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  • RoseIsabella

    *strokes fake beard & lights a cigar*
    Tell me about your mother.

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  • SandyGun5555

    Hmmm, sounds like you are somewhat of a emotionally draining asshole. Maybe you should like, cut your throat.

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  • MangoTango

    Hmmmm, your relationships are sadistic. I guess if you're dating twits that have not too solid self esteem, oh well, do whatever. Seems a bit boring and disturbing to me. Looks entirely like domestic abuse. Its very pathological. Not normal. Def' not how a healthy relationship should be.

    Hey, me thinks that you really should be the better man here and not do what you want to do. Its really creepy wrong. However, in real life, yeah, partners do power play a bit. One always picks a dominant role. But, in a healthy relationship, being in the dominant role does NOT entail belittling or harming their partner.

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  • realsis

    You are a real piece of work. If you seriously do this, you are a physcopath. You need serious help now. Your sick on so many levels and pretty pathetic. You really need to seek help to see why you have the desire to do these things. We're you abused as a child? Did your mother molest you? You have some serious deep seated mental issue. Maybe this is the only way you feel like a man? Maybe you feel inadequate in most areas of your life so you do this to give yourself the illusion of power and control because your really just a out of control person. You do this to make yourself feel big. You are using other people's feelings and your one sick bastards with some seriously fucked up issues. I hope you get help.

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  • wafflesundays

    hope you grow out of it maybe when u meet the right person you will change

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  • cynicalteen

    To be honest, I've done this before, and it IS fun. It feels great, actually. But I have regrets. So many regrets.

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  • Arm0se

    There's a special place in hell for people like you.

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    • SandyGun5555

      Hell doesn't exist, you foolish child. There's a special place in the gay community for him.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Next time take a big shit in her bed.

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  • regisphilbin

    *internet high five bro*

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  • Ebola69

    Nice story for a fat little virgin.

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