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Whenever i have a girl over and we are watching a movie or when we are cuddling i like to lie on the girls chest, listen to her heart beat or be the little spoon and feel protected more than the other way around. are these normal feelings for a guy?
You're quite normal. I'm a man and I like being held by a woman from behind A LOT, more than I can possibly put into words.
I love being the little spoon, held and protected in a woman's arms, but in my case it goes farther. I love being held by a woman from behind with her hands pulled back into my stomach super tight, like she's squeezing me in two. I mean TIGHT, with her hands wrenched back into my stomach all the way to my spine. I'd have to say that for me it's a fetish. It comes from getting held on laps that way a lot when I was a kid, blame a couple of older teenage girls in my environment.
I've sometimes struggled with whether this quirk of mine is normal or not, and despite the fact that my SO accepts it, it sometimes makes me feel like a freak. But in the end, thinking it over as calmly and coolly as I can, I have to conclude that I'm normal. Different but normal. And if I'm normal then believe me, you're normal.
Thanks.. i really needed that.. girls only like me for my looks and guitar playing but when i told one that i wanted her to hold me she said that i should be the one holding her, this made me feel really guilty and i'm just recovering from an depression :(
You play guitar, awesome! But I don't think anybody would like you just for that - it's a great thing, but you can't stick around if somebody's for instance horrible, no matter how good they look. Just remember they're with you for a reason, and that's because you're awesome. There's no need to feel guilty at all, but maybe you should hold each other ... a compromise!
Don't feel guilty. Of course as a female you want to be held some too. But I like doing some of the holding as well.
It sounds super gay but some girls might be into that kind of thing. I would personally be annoyed with any guy that acted this mooshy. Well anyone who does really.
You really need to catch up with the rest of the 21st century ... unless you're under 14 years old, your attitude is just embarrassing.
Yeah, I dont like feminine wussys. I know you think being part of the 21st century means everyone is going to be effeminate but that is simply not the case. There is probably many women who agree with this as well. So your not really progressive at all. Your stating that whatever your into is progressive. Its really not.
"Yeah, I dont like feminine wussys" you already express discriminating hate and intollerance simply by using the word "wussys" that, my friend, is conservative. Being part of the 21st century doesnt mean everyone is going to be effeminate, it means that people can be themselves witouth intollerant people like you using negative slurs like "gay" or "wussy" for one type of behaviour. stop embarassing yourself
It would kind of be like me telling you that you are not living in the 21st century for being into S&M. Now is everyone into it? No they are probably not but its not like we should be expecting everyone to be into it either. So are you into S&M? If you say no then you really need to get more progressive idiot. Since everyone should be into BONDAGE! That is how society works!
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