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At the same time I get sad. Like my feelings are hurt but I'm also turned on. So I'm standing there aroused and upset. It feels like the opposite of angry sex. Is this relatively normal?
i think you have been hurt so much in your life, that you have been to like it (your subconscious have made you). while at the same time the original feeling of sadness is there. i have come across some people like you,....some of the thing they said was..." while i know that harsh words make me sad, angry, and sometimes it feels like something in me is breaking...but this mixed feeling gives me some kind of rush, so i stay quite just listening to what they say". i think its the tension between to feelings that gives the arousal like feeling.
i may be wrong...but who cares!