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I like him to choke me sometimes hard, slap me, and gag me with his dick while my head is tilted downward off the edge of the bed. I was sexually molested by my cousin for years as a child.
Yes it's normal for someone who was molested to enjoy this. I am the same way. It's very unhealthy tho.
I don’t want it any other way. I like to be very submissive to him. I don’t think that I can change.
That's why it's not healthy. I used to be the same way but I am learning how to be treated well and loved. You are subconsciously continuing the abuse due to shame. At least thats what I am told.
I understand. But PLEASE, try to find someone who loves you. You may not believe this, but you really don’t deserve to be hurt like that.
There could be other reasons. Does he manipulate you or force you to do things you're not comfortable with? If he does, that's not love because it's all about him and what he wants, not about you or what you want. You're both people at the end of the day, and both deserve to be threated like equals.
There's nothing wrong with liking rough sex, as long as you both are into it. Do you have a safeword to stop it if you're not comfortable?
Love doesn't rape you. He's just been brainwashing you to believe that and you've been brainwashing yourself to believe it too. You're innocent, you don't deserve this.
He tells me that he loves me. Sometimes it’s while he’s rough with me. I know that he wants me to act like I like it, so I do. He gets what he needs from me so I wait for him and make sure that I meet all of his needs. I may feel like I am worth nothing but I have my man and I need to keep him by being totally dominated by him
I think it is completely normal as if it is what you are comfortable with and that is what you enjoy then there is nothing abnormal x
That's horrible. He needs to be soft and gentle with you. You should divorce before he really attacks or kills you. Try to find a shelter for battered women in your area.
I actually like being raped by him. I like him to beat me sometimes. I ask for it. I just stay away from public, so no one sees me but I don’t need to be going anywhere anyway bc I should be only focused on my husband.
You only “like” it because you think you deserve it. You’re acting out what happened to you before.
You don’t deserve this. That little girl was innocent, and she didn’t deserve to be hurt. And you are just as innocent. He shouldn’t be hurting you like this.
I'm not trying to sound disrespectful but did you like it when you were molested Because that would make sense.
You need to set modern boundaries. Women here have given advice. You should embrace what you want. If you still love it then do it, if you find it unhealthy, then create a dialogue with your husband and create a new comfort zone for only you to create what is comfortable for you.