Is it normal that i kind of stalked this dude at university?

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So i saw this magnificent creature today at university, exactly what I'm looking for: not skinny, good facial hair, dressed superbly, and tall <3 and he had a earring on his right!! So he may be gay, but i didn't see if he did on the left, and some breeders peirce both ears nowadays.

Anyway to clarify I just went the direction he went in to try to see if i could find him in the library and check if he has one on the left.

This felt kind of weird so when i didn't see him in the lobby i gave up. Anyway does this make me stalkerish?! Also what do i do?! Itd be weird to just give him my number right? Ugh

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    I wouldn't say it's stalkerish unless you continuously do it.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Yeah, that's pretty stalkerish. Simon LeBon had both ears pierced back in the early 80s, and he's never been gay. It's not really any of your business if this guy is gay or staight, besides he could be queer as a three dollar bill and still have no interest in you. I don't care if you male or female, gay or straight or trans or whatever, because it's unhealthy for you to stalk another person, and nobody's obligated to return your interest. Don't waste your time obsessing about this person or anyone else, because it's just a waste of time that you could be studying.

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    • fluffy1uv
      7 years ago

      True it is a waste of time. Still technically stalking him would be actually following him around and keeping tabs on him which i have no intention of doing.

      I do think your thinking about just not wasting my time is a little flawed. He's not obligated to like me, no shit, but does that mean i shouldn't even try?

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        If you want to try strike up a conversation with him next time you see him.

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        • The_Creep_is_here
          7 years ago

          Honestly, I don't think she is to the stalker point yet. She is respecting his privacy, and not really obsessing about him. If his left ear is unpierced, she is going to leave him alone.

          If she starts a conversation and he brushes her off, then anything after that point is stalking.

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            She? Is it weird that I thought she was a he? I feel like OP is a gay guy, but I dunno.

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  • KrazyKat
    7 years ago

    Are you a girl or a guy?

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    • fluffy1uv
      7 years ago

      Guy haha that's why it matters if he's gay

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  • realloser
    7 years ago

    it is not normal to be gay

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    • biirdprince
      7 years ago

      ït îs ñðt ñðrmàî tö ßè stråìght

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    • fluffy1uv
      7 years ago

      Yeah it is lol scientists have found 100% physical correlation between brain structure and being gay.

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    • SirChazwickEsquire
      7 years ago

      Actually it is hot taking a risk with a strange man who may or may not be HIV positive. It is a huge turn on knowing he could put his disease in me at any given time.

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  • buttholegaper
    7 years ago

    So wait, now I have to wear earrings to be gay? I can't keep up with all these rules.

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    • fluffy1uv
      7 years ago

      Ugh... I was saying that i only saw a earring on his right side, i didn't see the other. If it was only a right earring then he's definitely gay since that's the gay side. If he has both then it's inconclusive. I can't believe i had to explain this though obviously gay guys don't all have earrings

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      • KrazyKat
        7 years ago

        My friend is gay, he ain't wearing no earrings. Also, why don't you go to him and be like, "are you gay?" That is how I was sure that my friend is gay.

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        • fluffy1uv
          7 years ago

          Because I'm nervous? Next time I'll try to make myself do that. It's always risky too because people get offended and then i have to explain to them why that's bigoted to do and it's just a hot mess

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          • KrazyKat
            7 years ago

            Don't worry. Just tell him it was out of curiosity. Or maybe a dare. Or if it was me this would be the conversation:
            Hey what's up?
            Nice earring!
            Having an earring in the right ear? (If he doesn't have the left ear) Sposta mean something?

            You will get your answer!

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