Is it normal that i kept giving him chances...?

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The first time I met him he was a sweetheart. Too good to be true. Then he screwed me over. He gave me a plausible excuse and I gave him a second chance. Then he screwed me again. He just snapped and pushed me away. He gave an emotional excuse about family issues and believed him. Still not sure if anything he said was true. I give him one last chance and he's already changed after relations. Our communication completely flipped since. I gave too many chances. Is it normal to give that many chances and feel like a complete moron for it?

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    It's time to move on: if you can't trust this person what's the point of staying with him?

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  • gingerlove
    8 years ago

    Very normal.

    Too normal. It's a terrible way to experience love when they just keep finding something else more important than you but what can we do?

    I'm sorry this happened and I hope you are doing okay but it's not your fault. You tried, more than once to work out but sometimes certain people don't want to work it out.

    If you move on, and I understand if you still have feelings for him, try to be open with other people and then maybe you will find a person more compatible that will be just as forgiving as you.

    Hope this helps.

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    • Atinauy
      8 years ago

      Thanks it does help. It does suck. I hope I find someone better.

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  • ancient-aliens
    8 years ago

    I feel for you as one of my past girlfriends kept cheating on me I just forgave her all the time
    Cause I loved her you need a man who you can trust who is loyal I'm single btw:)

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you are doing all the giving here. What are you getting out of this relationship except grief?

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Yeah, it's normal.

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