Is it normal that i keep thinking about death of my family? :(

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Sup yo awesome peeps!

Yesterday i had a cramp in the deep end in a pool i didn't tell anyone until i got out, so when i was on my way home i was thinking i could of died there. My last day could of been in a pool. Usualy when i come home from university i watch tv with my grand father for an hour but lately, he has only been staying with me for 3minutes and i'm really worried. I know it is stupid to worry about tv schedules and that stuff but I love my family oh so much and i don't like my family's behaviour change because it could mean something is wrong. Last night i had thoughts about death and then moved to my parent's room and then cried myself to sleep and today when i woke up i cried because i have this weird habit of thinking about things i think of the night before. I don't want to waste my time with this pathetic nonsense about death so please, tell me some words to snap me out of it. Sorry i didn't want to make it this long. I hope this is normal and i am happy because i am not alone. Ps. I am new.

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  • alidralex
    9 years ago

    i think about it too what am i suppose to do?

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  • ZP21
    9 years ago

    if you think about it positively and in a way that you love your family and you dont want to lose them then yes that is fine. but if you are stressing over it or constantly thinking of ways they could be dying then i think you should bring it up with a doctor. or either way maybe get an appointment with a counselor. not only could they help you through things but you could make a stronger bond and just talk about anything. just get your mind off of things and live. i know losing people is scary but also try focusing on your life a bit: stay upbeat and live the life you want and cherish the moments that your family members are in your presence.

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    • Jenny5270
      9 years ago

      Thanks for the advice :)

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    Wow depressing title, followed by an uplifting first line that made me think it might not be what I was expecting............ But no :(

    I say normal, well, I guess it depends on your age but most people tend to have an experience similar to this, we all know about death but one day you really acknowledge it and think of the possibilities, for me it was like gravity, you experience it everywhere you go but it's not something you think about its just there, constantly, then one day something makes you observe it, observe its affect on everything you know, including yourself

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    • Jenny5270
      9 years ago

      Oh sorry. I call you awesome becuase you took the time out of your day to look at my question.

      Thanks a lot. I know i am not alone and i guess it's normal. I will think about it one day again. (Yearly). Like gravity.

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      • kingofcarrotflowers
        9 years ago

        Nono don't get me wrong, wasn't complaining :)

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