Is it normal that i keep looking over my boyfriends ex gf's pictures???

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I have no idea why but this little obsession has risen with me looking at the pictures of my bf ex girlfriend. I have no idea why I keep looking at them!!! Not being big headed but she was not as attractive as me, but she was his first 'love'. And he has had quite a few gf after her, but still, I only keep looking at her pict!! I'm not jealous at all, I honestly just want to understand why I do it. I find it rather sad and pathetic of me really.

Please do give your honest opinion xxx

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Maybe because you unconsciously feel intimidated that even though you may be better in every way, her being his "first love" is still a threat to you.

    Stop living by what other people say about that whole first love stuff. It can chain you down.

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  • popperpop
    11 years ago

    It's a territorial thing, but remember he's with you now, not her. Instead of looking at pictures of a girl you will probably never meet, spend time with him and talk to him about everything so you both can fall for one another

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you have a slight obsession with her. But what I don't understand is why...

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    I think there is an element of jealousy, I would have no problem with a bf/partner having a picture or two of an ex for the sake of memory.

    But has he a lot of pictures and ones of them together? If he does, that would probably make me a bit jealous and I would be wondering why he felt the need to keep them all.

    If he only has the one or two, then it shouldn't be a problem and I would suggest making yourself stop looking at them as it's probably winding you up and feeding unreasonable jealousy.

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  • megs
    13 years ago

    Honest opinion....creeper.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    you doing cause you wanna figure out your bf better. you imagine how he was with her.

    Do you think how their sex was too? you get horny often by doing so?

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  • chewy
    13 years ago

    well maybe you are obsessed with looking at her pictures? i dont know thats my one and only guess

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