Is it normal that i keep doing this?

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I've been in two relationships both with people I've liked and considered as friends, and whom I thought I could fall for eventually. In both cases, what happened was that for the first few months it was all good and happy and then they start getting all clingy and it just turns me off and I start pushing them away. Is it because I don't meet the right people or some sort of inability to emotionally connect?

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Based on 14 votes (10 yes)
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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    2 isn't really a pattern.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      I agree, just bad luck so far

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  • ashieviews
    8 years ago

    Make an effort, stop giving up so easily. Maybe the reason they become clingy is because they consider you to be dependable. Have you ever wondered what's making them act this way? It could be because they feel that your their only support system. You need to find the root of the cause, because it just sounds like you aren't able to maintain relationships.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    That's the only reason you broke up with them? Did you... I don't know... try TALKING about it?!??!? They latched on to you for a reason. Did you ever think about why? You probably fucked them up real bad, even if they say otherwise.

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