Is it normal that i just never want to be around my family, ever

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So basically I don't want to be around my family for multiple reasons. Reason number one is that they are loud loud people who never give me any privacy whatsoever... I'm basically not aloud to close my door unless I'm changing. The second reason is because I think they might hate me, I currently have 3 types of ADHD focus, impulse and hyperactivity a lot of anxiety and sleep disorders whenever one of these things affect me in any way my parents act like I killed someone and yell at me for like an hour and sometimes hit me or slap me etc, and its very common to get electronics and other privileges taken , but when my little sister gets in trouble they smile and politely ask her not to do it again, like I said I feel a little favoring going her way. Another reason is because no one understands me in my family Im kinda just alone, I feel like I'm not even related to my family. Honestly I can't wait till Im going to get out of here and go to college, I work so hard in school just to get out of here. Is it normal for me to hate my family?

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  • Alice97
    8 years ago

    Normal given all you're dealing with mentally, but not healthy.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Does your ADHD manifest itself in you acting out in extreme ways? Maybe you need to be on some medication or have your doctor change the medication you're on if it isn't working. Do you exercise? Exercise can be a great help. I dunno if you play video games, but video games will only make your symptoms worse.

    Have you ever damaged property or caused harm to yourself? If you're destructive that could be the reason why they don't give you any privacy. I do want to say that it's not okay for them to physically hit you, and you ought to tell a teacher or school counselor. More than like ya'll should all be in therapy as a family in addition to you being in individual therapy for your own issues.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    With 3 types of ADHD, I'm sure they are quite happy that you don't want to spend a lot of time with them. Sounds like you've made the right choice.

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