Is it normal that i haven't seen him in over 2 months?

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I met a really great guy on EHarmony in January. We have talked almost every single day since then. He took a while to actually ask me out but I figured he wanted to be certain since online dating can be nerve-wracking, I get that. So anyways, we go on dates, talk on the phone, we even facetime while he's away on work trips.

Everything seemed so great. I haven't seen him since May. It's August 1 today. Whenever I bring it up, he always gives me something along the lines of "I want to, but I'm just so busy" and continues to text me every single day. I don't get it. Should I give up?

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  • Kevinevan
    6 years ago

    He's not into u. The fact that you've already dated should scream volumes. You're either a backup or He's too much of a pussy to end it.

    Sorry. Move on from this asshole.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    One thing you'll have to understand about almost every guy that's single, is that you're not the only girl he's talking to.

    Horrible, right? Not really. How most men date is by stacking their options before choosing which one is worth the effort; this method of dating is time consuming depending on the needs of the women they lined up and what he finds valuable in them. For example, if a guy values appearance over character, then all he'll spend most of his time, money, and energy on the hotter girls and put all others on his maybe list; same goes for character, or anything else he seeks (it depends on the guy).

    What you need to do is not take it so seriously. Online dating is hooking up to the majority, and sex will be on the mind of many; so hoping you'll find Mr.Right is very slim. On the plus side, the fact that he makes the effort to text you means he's interested, but there's probably another girl before you that's he's on the fence about.

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  • nobodynose
    6 years ago

    If he doesn't live far away, he's making excuses. Nobody is busy 24/7 for two months. If he wanted to see you he would make time

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Does he live far away?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      About an hour drive. He travels for work a lot which is understandable, but when he is home, he acts like everything else is more important than me.

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      • JonathanOo
        6 years ago

        Sounds like you are not a priority then. That's ridiculous. I would be furious

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